As it states in its name, the New Comers Strap-On Kit is a good choice for beginners in all sorts of strap-on play. My partner and I use it for vaginal sex, but as you can see from other reviews, it can definitely be used for anal sex as well.

The harness itself is comfortable and easy to use. All of the straps are adjustable, making it perfect for those in relationships with someone of a different size than themselves if you'll both be using it.

The dildo included is silicone, and as EdenFantasys recommends with waterproof silicone toys, it's best to soak this toy is warm water before use to warm it up. I learned first-hand that being penetrated with a cold dildo is rather uncomfortable. Also, be sure to use a water-based lube when using silicone toys.

Advanced users would likely be displeased with this toy due to the small size of the dildo, as it is only 3/4" in diameter and 5" long.

The harness was great, easily adjusted and comfortable to wear. Neither of us had any problems putting it on or taking it off. The provided dildo itself sits securely in the harness and stays secure during use. We haven't tried it with any other toys yet, but if we do I'll be sure to mention that in my follow-up.

For performance, I was more pleased with the harness than the dildo. We had a bit of trouble with the dildo because of it's size. Although both of us think the 3/4" is perfect for us as beginners, the length left a bit to be desired. The dildo often comes all the way out, even when you don't mean it to, and in order to avoid that you have to restrict your movement to shorter strokes. We had to get a little creative with positioning as well, but with practice this isn't a huge problem.

The harness is nylon, and the packaging says it's machine washable. I get a little worried about washing it that way often because I don't want to wear it out, so I typically hand wash it after use and only machine wash after a handful of times.

The dildo is silicone, so you can boil it or put it in the top rack of your dishwasher to fully disinfect it. Because I live at school and don't have a dishwasher, I typically just use soap and hot water. I've found that dust clings to this toy, so make sure you clean it before using it as well as after.

The strap-on and dildo were packaged together. The front of the pink box has a photograph of an attractive heterosexual couple with the woman wearing the strap-on. The outside of the box lists the feature of the product:
- 4-way adjustable strap-on
- Please silicone dildo
- Fits up to 60" hips
- Machine washable

The back has the same list of features, adding that this kit is "perfect for beginners or pegging" and that the o-ring accepts dildos up to 1 1/4" in diameter. The instructions are minimal, also listed on the back of the box, simply explaining how to put on the harness.

I think all I have to say is be patient. My partner and I were really hesitant the first time we used this, I broke out into giggles, we got frustrated, and it wasn't a very pleasant experience. With more practice, it becomes obvious that this is a good product. The dildo really is the perfect size for beginners, and the harness is easy to wear.

I've also found that the bonus of this product is that even when my partner isn't around I can take the dildo out of the harness and use it alone.