I think that the 4.5" thick dildo is perfect for vaginal or anal use. It does work better with the aid of other toys though. You can put it into a harness for pegging or penetrating a female or for thrusting, add another suction cup toy to the 4.5's suction cup for leverage.
The included mask can be used for bondage and/or for sleep, while the 1oz water based lube sample is great for reducing friction during solo or couple play male or female, with or without toys. The toy cleaner can be used on virtually any toy.

I love pure silicone and that's exactly what this toy is made of. I love it because its hypoallergenic, latex and phthalates free and totally non-porous, which means it's safe to share between users and/or orifices when cleaned properly in between!!!
It's smooth and supple but does have a bit of drag, so lube is generally called for- especially for anal use. The toy seems made of the same material all of the way through, so no hard plastic core to make the toy rigid and uncomfortable. It's firm but flexible at the same time.
It does have a seam along each side, but I really don't notice it at all- then again, I rarely notice seams as I am a texture girl.
It's a great toy for all levels and genders and has no taste or smell.
The mask is also made of the same silicone as your toy (pink for dildos, purple, red or black for vibrating toys)

The included 1oz lube is in a plastic bottle with screw off lid and has the following ingredients: Aloe vera, Nettle extract, rosemary extract, balm mint extract, ginseng extract, water, glycerin, hydroxyethyl, ethylcellulose, diazolidinyl urea, carbopol, sodium benzoate, methylparaben, PEG 6-32, triethanolamine, nonylphenol, citric acid
I find it strange that they are listed in this order with Aloe Vera being ahead of water but it is chalk full of some really awesome natural ingredients that soothe and have anti-bacterial properties. Unfortunately though it does contain glycerin which can cause yeast infections (I find it infuriating that so many lubes contain this) and parabens which are known cancer causing agents and also occasionally cause allergic reactions. The consistency is slightly thicker but not like a gel, smells like aloe and isn't that sticky. I rate the lube on the better side of average.

The 1oz toy cleaner is in a plastic bottle with a screw off lid and contains:Water, ammonium, lauryl sulfate, cocamidopropyl betaine, cocamide DEA, sodium carboxymetyl lauryl glucoside, sodium PCA, propyl-paraben, methylparaben, diazolinyl urea, citric acid
Once again I find the parabens to be the issue.

The design is fairly simple. It's a short dildo. Short enough that it doesn't reach my cervix which is generally a problem for me with most insertables. It's not realistic but definitely fatter at the tip than the base of the shaft with a enough of a G-spot curve to do the trick. Equally long as around- 4.5' to be exact, and except for the need of a handle it fits my insides to a 'T'!!
It's dimensions are as follows:
L: 5.25"
IL: 4.5"
D: 1.5"
C: 4.5"
W: 0.4lb
It's not perfectly round, more of a 4 sided but rounded shape, which I like because then there's more pressure against your G-spot. It's slightly pointed as well, but I don't find that I notice because it is so short. A good luxury toy to compare the shaft shape to is the Lelo Mona.
The bottom is totally flat- a sort of suction cup, though not the best I've encountered just because it is so flat. This does make for a perfect harness toy though, regardless of what size 'O' ring you have this toy should fit nicely. I've used it for pegging and it seems to work for the top better than for the bottom as it just isn't long enough to reach p-spots but gives the top great control.
For thrusting I find the best solution is to stick another suction cup toy right on the end to use as a handle, otherwise you end up trying to grip the edge of the suction cup and you can't get much leverage. The dildo spins around and misses your G-spot if the curve ends up backwards.
It's easy to travel with because you don't have to worry about it breaking, but despite being non-realistic it still is not at all discreet.

The included lube and toy cleaner are huge for samples at 1oz each (compared to the average .1 oz).

The mask is one main piece plus strap with plastic adjustable clasp. I have a humongous head at approx 59cm and at its maximum length it manages to fit my face but it is quite tight- bearable for play but not for an entire night of sleeping. Still I think its a nice extra- different and fun.

It's simple, the suction cup holds well- either to a wall or floor as well as to another toy. The performance of the 4.5" is all in how you perform! The one thing I would advise would be too be careful that you angle it right and stop it from spinning so that the angle and thickness (size queens will laugh but I think it's plenty thick) don't bother tender orifice flesh or nearby organs. I love it- I've had for almost a year and it doesn't show even a hint of wear.

The lube is fairly thin and needs reapplying, but most water based lubes do and at least it isn't sticky.

Toy cleaner is toy cleaner- seems like it works but so does really hot water.

Simplest care ever! You can even boil it or throw it in the top rack of your dishwasher! You can also just use anti-bacterial soap and water or a 10% bleach solution, toy cleaner (like the one provided) orwipes
Since it's made of pure silicone you need to make sure that you never let it come into contact with other silicone products- liquid or solid, because the materials can bond and the toy will deteriorate.
This means water-based lube likeIntimate Organics Defense is your best bet. Some people say that oil-based lube is safe as well, as long as you stay away from silicone and silicone hybrids (hint:hybrids generally have the word 'silk' in their name).
Store in a pouch (not included) or simply in a sock!

The 4.5 came in a solid pink white and black Fetish Fantasy Elite Box- fine for storage or gift giving and recyclable. Instructions were not really necessary as they would simply say: insert into orifice, remove and repeat. The box has pics of the toy and mask on the front so it's not totally discreet but at least it doesn't have any naked chicks on it.
Included were some great extras: a silicone sleep mask, 1oz lube and 1oz toy cleaner in a sealed plastic bag. The samples are in thick, clear, plastic bottles with screw cap tops which can be an issue due to possible spillage.

I got this toy with a bunch of others for a great deal from my first mentor. It turned out to be a golden gem hidden amoungst others that I had high hopes for that let me down. I kept looking at all of these shapes when I first came to Eden- GiGi for example, that I imagined would be pure bliss once I got them inside of me. Boy was I wrong. Gigi hurt like hell and then broke. The 4.5 , on the other hand was the opposite. I thought hmmm , looks like it won't be flexible enough and it doesn't even vibrate! Goes to show that you just don't know until you actually try it. Men's genitalia come in all shapes and sizes and vaginas are no different. The thing is penisis yo can actually stand back and look at but vaginas we need to actually fill up and see how we areally are shaped inside. I also looked at the Fun Factory [|Calla] several times and thought it would be perfect for me. Turns out I'm happier starting out thick and then tapering down. Imagine a vagina owner for 35 years not knowing how she's shaped! Anyway I'm a happy clam now and as soon as I was full of the 4.5 I was content to focus on my clit instead. I do tend to clam down when I cum and it can go shooting out of me but I think that now that I have found the right shape I can move on to a more expensive toy of the same shape with a handle like the Lelo [|Mona 2}. until it comes back in stock I am going to try the virating 4.5 with the original 4.5 stuck end to end yay!