This toy was something we normally wouldn't have chosen, but we are always open to new things. The lover's harness|Plushy gear lover's harness is made of very soft material, feels wonderful against the skin. Only downside to this material is if it gets dirty, it doesn't come clean very easily. It is recommended that the plush material is cleaned with a mild detergent or upholstery cleaner, and left to dry completely, but when I tried that, it was very visible where I had cleaned. One of the best features of this toy is how adjustable it is. Can be made very small, or very large, lots of Velcro to work with. The roughest side of the Velcro is also on the outside part of the harness, saving your skin from scratching and irritation. The harness is aesthetically pleasing, and looks sexy while worn with a cute little outfit or all by itself.

The handles are a great alternative to grabbing hips or where ever else you may have the urge to grab. My boyfriend had a great time controlling both our movements easily and conveniently. At times he could use the harness to hold me still while he did teased me, others times he would sit back, and pull me back to him. They're very sturdy and a decent enough size so those with larger hands are comfortable using them as well.

The biggest issue I have with this toy is how it does not work too well unless it is really tight. Otherwise, you do not get the proper movement; there is too much slack in it and it moves around too much. Making it really tight makes it uncomfortable, but usable. It's easy enough to twist around the body, so if you start out with the handles behind, you can switch positions with minor inconvenience.

For the price, I think this is a great bargain.  It's not too expensive, so even if it is only used a few times, your money is well spent.