This has been a staple in my wife's and my endeavors lately. There are times when it's getting late, the kids are finally asleep, and you want to have fun but you don't want to hassle with clasps and straps. These soft cuffs are the first things I grab on nights like this. These bad boys are stretchy enough to get your hands quickly in but will keep them secure and tight enough to give you the pleasurable sensation of being restrained. The spacing between the cuffs provides a great place for the one in charge to grab, and single handedly move your partners hands to wherever you want them. This is a wonderful starting cuff set as trust is needed when trying new things, especially of the Domineering type. While this does give you a great sensation of not having control of your hands, you can still easily slip them off whenever you want to. Whatever mood you are in, if you are just ready to let loose, take these off, and grab a hold of your partner or just sit back, relax and give up control knowing your hands are tied, these give you the option to do either. Since these are made of silicone, they can be used practically anywhere, bed, shower, tub, you name it. If you are looking to get your foot (or hands) in the door of more kinky sessions, you can't find a better place to start than this.