Transfer of Control

The system provides many pleasurable bangs for the buck with each and every use. As beginners in bondage play, we found that each time we have used it, we have added new positions and new toys which made it as exciting and fun as the initial time. The system is well made and durable and should provide fun over and over again for many years to come...or cum as it were.
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Pros
Easy to set up, use and store. It is well made and durable for the cost of the system.
Cons
The adjusting buckles would be better if they were metal. Plastic can break with overuse and abuse.
Rating by reviewer:
4
extremely useful review

Use

As beginners in bondage play, we found this product very fun. We cannot see how the restraint could be used solo, but if you are a contortionist by profession, give it a try. As beginners, it was perfect for our use but could see it used by those more experienced. The level of restriction can be easily varied from light restriction, allowing a greater amount of freedom, to almost complete immobility. We paired it with other toys which added to the overall fantasy. We have both used the restraint, allowing each other to have control. It is always good to share!
  • Who / How / What
    [ ? ]
    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Couples
    • Everyone
    • Light restraint
  • Where
    [ ? ]
    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Bedroom / on a bed
    • Play party
  • Features
    [ ? ]
    What kind of features does this product offer?
    • Compact
    • Easy set up
    • Travel friendly

Design / Craftsmanship / Material / Size / Fit

The overall design is very simple with a utilitarian feel. The straps are constructed from durable nylon and attached to the two center D-rings with single stitching. The wrist and ankle cuffs are the same durable nylon and attached to the straps with two O-rings and a swivel clasp. The only component of the system which may break after much usage would be the plastic adjuster slides on the straps. The plastic seems to be strong so that may not be an issue (read our follow up review in 10 years). The cuffs are padded with a soft velvet and secured with Velcro strips. As with any Velcro, over time it will collect hair, lint, fur, small insects...Okay, maybe not the insects. For the money, we were very pleased with the overall craftsmanship, ease of use, and design.
    • Adjustable
    • Utilitarian
    • Well made / sturdy

Performance

Woo hoo! Yes, it met our needs and expectations - multiples times. Experience is the best teacher and we found that our initial set up of the straps in a X configuration (with the straps at the corners of the mattress) allowed more freedom once I moved and pulled on the straps. The straps ended up at the head and foot of the bed, allowing me to almost reach the velcro closures of the wrist cuffs. Yes, we could have stopped and adjusted the straps but what fun is that?!? The second time we used the system, we placed the straps coming out the sides of the mattress in a horizontal "H" configuration. That worked much better and allowed little to no "wiggle room".
    • Comfortable during use
    • Easy to put on / use

Care and Maintenance

There is minimal care needed for the system. The nylon can be spot cleaned if needed. We have stored it by simply wrapping the system onto itself and storing it in a drawer. The entire system will fit inside a shoe box.
    • Easy to clean
    • Easy to store

Packaging

The packaging was basic plastic package with a restrained sexy brunette on the front. We were disappointed that she wasn't included. There were minimal directions on the back but we didn't read them.
    • Plastic packaging

Personal comments

Regarding set up - I am not an instruction reader nor is my boyfriend an engineer, so at first glance we were a little daunted with the set up. However, once the system was unfurled from the box, it was very easy to set up and adjust. We adjusted the system on top of the bed first to get the correct length for the straps. We both installed the restraint by lifting up our respective mattress corners and placing the system between the mattress and box spring. Since the initial installation we have individually installed the system under the mattress, and it is easy to do.


If you chose to keep the system installed under the mattress, the straps can be tucked in far enough that they are not visible unless you are looking for them. Good for people with housekeepers who may change the sheets as part of their cleaning schedule.

Experience

She said: The first time we used the restraints, I was lying on my stomach. The loss of control combined with the inability to see my boyfriend was very erotic. The anticipation of not knowing what was going to happen next and yielding to his desires was a huge mental turn-on. He used both a paddle and a whip which heightened the overall experience. We have used the restraints with me both lying on my back and stomach in combination with the Liberator wedge. Every position and combined toy usage have satisfied! The only downside is it is possible to get out of the restraints with some concentration and a little slack of the straps. The swivel clasps are close enough to the wrist cuff that they could be unlatched. I also tend to twist quite a bit when orgasming so I could feel the metal connectors on my wrists at times. It wasn't bad, just a different sensation from the soft, warm fabric.

He said: The restraint system was wonderful giving me full control both physically and mentally over my girlfriend. Mental restraints combined with carnal desire put a "good angel" on one shoulder..."give her some slack" and the devil on the other shoulder...."pull the straps tighter". When the roles were reversed, being tied down was enjoyable in the sense that it gave my girlfriend control which she tends to relish.
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  • Contributor: The Curious Couple
    Great review, thank you!
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    Great review, you guys! Keep up the good work!
  • Contributor: unfulfilled
    Great review; what size bed do you have? We have a king size bed so I'm curious if it would fit on it.
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    Nice review
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