I was looking for something to spice up my sex life and this did the trick. I always found role-playing difficult (usually I crack up laughing right in the middle of it, like when I was the naughty school girl) but this makes it easier. Many people are afraid of anything pertaining to bondage or pain because it is taboo in certain circles. This kit is very simple, not extremely kinky, and will give you the perfect first taste of bondage or getting pleasure out of pain.

The product itself is wonderful and quality crafted. The black leather looks so clean, yet so very erotic when paired against your skin. Most of us women spend so much money on the cutesy lingerie attempting to arouse our men. Well look no further ladies, when a man sees leather against a woman's flesh, he is bound to go crazy. You are likely to see a side of him that you have never seen before. It is also a great starting point for this type of play because of the Velcro restraints; you never have that fear of being completely out of control.

So here are my suggestions when utilizing your new bondage/restraint kit. First of all, start off with the blind fold. You don't want your partner to see what you are going to do next; the element of surprise is so very erotic and arousing. Then play around with the rubber tickler/whip, starting off being gentle and playful. Make sure it only tickles at first; this is a great way to build up your partners arousal and make them want more intensity. Then use the cuffs to restrain them. Now that you have taken the "control" away from your partner (the cuffs are Velcro so they never really lose their control), start being a little rougher. If you have never played around with getting pleasure out of pain, then this is a great time to see if you like it. After that, just let your imagination run wild. Have fun with it all and don't worry about how you look or sound; I can assure you that you looking or sounding cheesy is far from your partner's mind at this point.

I purchased this product to spice up my sex life. I was stuck in the grind of things and it was always the same (blow job, then cowgirl, then missionary, then done). It's like we were both focused on having an orgasm, not on having fun and enjoying the experience. This changed everything and opened up many doors for me and my partner.