This Speak No Evil Choker is perfect for beginner BDSM play. Being made of Neoprene and Velcro makes it much more comfortable than a leather and metal alternative, but also flimsier. It really isn't suitable for rough play, or continual use because of this. This will cause it to fall apart. For a couple who is just getting into BDSM, this choker is a good place to start. The choker uses Velcro as a closure, which can be adjusted to fit almost any user and is surprisingly strong. Even hard tugging wouldn't undo it. Since is is made of Neoprene, it is perfect for water play, as well as the the traditional bedroom usage. The Speak No Evil Choker comes with a detachable lead, but the lead only adjusts up to 21", which really limits it use. It does have a plastic D-ring, so something can be added to it, but this is like other parts of the choker isn't all that sturdy.

I found that the Speak No Evil Choker was perfect for emasculating a man because of its bright pink color and feminine design. The fact that the width is 2" may be uncomfortable for smaller users. For those that like a more restrictive feel though, this won't be a problem.

The design is unique and a little bit feminine, with bright pink fabric studs going all the way around the Speak No Evil Choker. Since it is made of Neoprene, not only can it be used in the bedroom, but also the shower or bathtub. Neoprene doesn't have any type of smell and is very comfortable. It, however, won't be able to last as well as some other types of BDSM restraints. Since this is more of a beginner BDSM toy, it won't be able to take a whole lot of heavy wear. Pulling hard continually on the nylon lead will damage the choker, causing it to pull apart. I also found the lead was a little short for many uses. The Speak No Evil Choker can be detached from the lead, but it doesn't have a suitable ring to clip another on. For the fit though, one size really does fit all. The Velcro closure can adjust to fit a user with a very small neck and expand to fit a very large one as well. Even with on both the choker itself as well as the leash the Velcro did not come undone.

The Speak No Evil choker feels very comfortable around the neck because of its fabric material and outer padding. It is, however, a little bit too wide for the wearer to move their neck around very much when wearing it, which depending on how you play can be a good thing. It might be a little bit uncomfortable to the wearer. I also found that the lead was very short, and didn't really work with a lot of actions. The lead does have a D-ring on the end which could be attached to something else, but the choker does not, so it can't really be separated from the lead. The Speak No Evil choker is great for water play though because it is made of Neoprene which is water proof.

Due to the choker's feminine color and design, it can be used by either a female or to emasculate a male, which I found it to be better for because of its width. The Velcro closure is very easy to get on, as well as off, but yet is able to stay on even when tugged on hard. It is important to keep in mind though that this is not an advanced choker and will be affected by too much heavy play.

Since its made of Velcro, Nylon, and Neoprene, its very easy to clean the choker. Simply wipe it off after use. It doesn't have any specific storage requirements.

The packaging is great for a novelty item. It a blue plastic pouch that has inflatable edges, which although completely unnecessary, is very interesting. It was hard to find where to get the Speak no Evil Choker out, but upon careful inspection there is a flap that will pull open.

The plastic packaging can be reused, and although it is see through, it is moderately discreet because the nothing on the packaging eludes to its purpose.