The Bondage Beginner's Beg For!
Overall, for a beginner, this toy is great to start to experience bondage. For truly advanced players, I would not recommend this toy, and spreader bars and other harnesses can be custom-made and done well to fit the individual you are playing with. This toy requires a lot of diligence in setting up (just time, truly) so that can be a negative going on because you have to play around with it a few times to really understand how to set it best for you.
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Pros
- great for beginners
- great for the bed
- great for the bed
Cons
- straps come loose often/too small to be tightened properly
I got the package in a standard, discreet brown box. The toy itself came in a large Ziploc-style bag with a bandaid around it.
It looked exactly how it was in the picture and was the same material I expected it to be.
At first glance, the "toy" itself is HUGE and LONG -- definitely too long for a "full" size bed or a "twin size". Too small for a king or cal king, but definitely the average size to use it on would be to try the full-size bed/queen bed. It could still work on the king as well.
I used it in two ways to test it out:
1) I put the bondage under a blanket laid out and let the arm straps and leg straps hang outside, and then I lay over the blanket while a partner buckled the straps around my ankles and wrists. Overall the feeling of bondage is there, and it's a great start to get used to the feeling.
2) The second way I tried it was putting it under the mattress, which is how it's normally recommended (which is a lot more work).
Some feedback:
- putting it under the mattress/blanket works!
- the biggest issue I encountered was that if I wanted to be "eagle-spread," I kind of had to tape down or make the bondage harness thing itself shorter and more stable to the points. It's a lot more sturdy under a mattress, but if you want to restrict movement completely, you need to tape it down with duct tape or something stronger.
- the straps came loose often, or there wasn't enough fabric to keep it tight. I recommend double looping it through the plastic buckle so it stays tight (or you have had your partner pt ducktape on top)
- I wish the straps had been velcro -- it would have been a better experience.
By the way: this toy can totally be set up for solo play if you have a Bluetooth toy with a remote partner or are camming!!! Which is SO GREAT!
Overall, the toy just requires about 10-20 min to figure out how it can be best used with you and your partner or even by yourself. After figuring that out, it can be a bit tedious to set it up every time, but the feeling of being bound and restricted for those who love it -- it's so worth it!
It's a great way to do SAFE and comfortable bondage for your first time and as you continue to grow in terms of bondage!
It looked exactly how it was in the picture and was the same material I expected it to be.
At first glance, the "toy" itself is HUGE and LONG -- definitely too long for a "full" size bed or a "twin size". Too small for a king or cal king, but definitely the average size to use it on would be to try the full-size bed/queen bed. It could still work on the king as well.
I used it in two ways to test it out:
1) I put the bondage under a blanket laid out and let the arm straps and leg straps hang outside, and then I lay over the blanket while a partner buckled the straps around my ankles and wrists. Overall the feeling of bondage is there, and it's a great start to get used to the feeling.
2) The second way I tried it was putting it under the mattress, which is how it's normally recommended (which is a lot more work).
Some feedback:
- putting it under the mattress/blanket works!
- the biggest issue I encountered was that if I wanted to be "eagle-spread," I kind of had to tape down or make the bondage harness thing itself shorter and more stable to the points. It's a lot more sturdy under a mattress, but if you want to restrict movement completely, you need to tape it down with duct tape or something stronger.
- the straps came loose often, or there wasn't enough fabric to keep it tight. I recommend double looping it through the plastic buckle so it stays tight (or you have had your partner pt ducktape on top)
- I wish the straps had been velcro -- it would have been a better experience.
By the way: this toy can totally be set up for solo play if you have a Bluetooth toy with a remote partner or are camming!!! Which is SO GREAT!
Overall, the toy just requires about 10-20 min to figure out how it can be best used with you and your partner or even by yourself. After figuring that out, it can be a bit tedious to set it up every time, but the feeling of being bound and restricted for those who love it -- it's so worth it!
It's a great way to do SAFE and comfortable bondage for your first time and as you continue to grow in terms of bondage!
This product was provided free of charge to the reviewer. This review is in compliance with the
FTC guidelines.
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