This paddle is the perfect size. It’s cute, so it seems like it would be less intimidating for beginners. The material is soft and does not create a harsh sting like a crop does. The handle is long enough for a man's hand to grip. It is made well. It’s gentle enough that swats can be given to body parts other than the ass (in between thighs, outside hips, etc.) A perfect toy for all levels and a good entry toy for those just starting to like play with spankings. It is a great add on to my collection of paddles.

I prefer to use this paddle with some added paddles to create different levels of intensity. I use with a feather wand, a tasseled whip, crop, and of course, his bare hand. It's best to have an array of implements on the bed, so your partner has a selection to choose from, and the level of intensity is constantly unknown and changing of which adds to arousal.