This was our second BDSM piece, which was preceded by the Good Girl Bad Girl Feather Spanker, which I'd say is about the same lever as this flogger. It was actually given to us by a fellow Edenite, because we were interested, but not sure how we felt about this type of play, and unsure about spending the money. I personally was pretty pleased with the toy's performance from the start, but I soon found myself wanting for more. It's definitely not for one who is into advanced kink, but its a wonderful starting piece for beginners. The price alone (even though we received it for free) justifies it.

It's at thirteen dollar Flogger. It's not super high quality, but even if I did pay for it, I'd still say you get your money's worth. When we got the flogger the previous owner mentioned,the decorative rhinestones had started to come off and she wound up having to remove them; to me, if I had personally purchased this piece, that would be a bit discouraging, especially if that were the main reason I had purchased the flogger. Also, the falls kink up a bit and it's kind of hard to keep them straight. We've had it and used it pretty frequently now for a few months, and nothing else has broken or damaged on it, so other than the decorative bits and the falls being a bit of a hassle, it's held up pretty well.

I actually expected it to sting a bit more. I can still remember the first time my S/O used it on me and I was bracing myself for the sharp pain to follow... and was thoroughly surprised with the light slap it actually delivered. Now, granted, my husband was holding back a bit... but even when he realized it wasn't hurting me and he stopped holding back, it still barely stung me. I love when he lightly runs the falls over my body, it feels great everywhere, thighs, butt, breasts... then he throws in some floggings here and there to keep it exciting! Another great thing is that it has yet to leave any marks on me and it has definitely never even gotten close to breaking my skin. It's been a great starting point for us and we will definitely be investing in higher quality kink toys thanks to our experience with this one!

The flogger is pretty easy to care for- it's made of Faux-leather, so you can just wash it off with a bit of soap and some water, then dry it off and either lay it gently in a drawer, or hang it somewhere from the metal ring on the end. I personally keep my hanging up in plain sight in my bedroom, so the falls don't get tangled or kinked up, but for some, that might not be an option. When I have company over and I think a friend might be going in my bedroom, I usually lay it out straight on the top shelf of my closet and just close my closet door.