We were looking for a spreader bar to expand our light bondage collection and this was a disappointment. It just wasn't versatile enough and the metal/polyester combination was slightly uncomfortable. The bar would be greatly enhanced if the length of the metal bar and circumference of the cuffs were more adjustable.

Overall, we loved the toy because it opened up a whole, new world for us in the bedroom. We have purchased a much more expensive spreader bar to replace this one, however. We will review that one after a few uses.

Overall this product is great for the price. Though seeing it online and seeing it in person are two different things. It did look bigger online. But no worries, it will get used and abused in this house. I have had this product for a few months now and it still hasn't broken, so it is holding up. I suggest if you want to buy something that isn’t going to scare your partner away and you want to start introducing restraints in the bedroom, this product is wonderful.

Worth every penny I spent. Overall a great investment and excellent addition to our toy chest. Great for beginners and experimental fantasies for both genders.

This is a sweet product for beginners seeking a non-threatening way to explore their fantasies. Sex without freedom to move your body is an exciting, different sensation all together. Being vulnerable often intensifies ones desire, and the spreader bar allows you to act out your desires by restraining someone just enough to feel vulnerable, but at the same time feel safe.

This little spreader bar could be utilized as a sort of everyday bar for hobbling or crawling but it's not long enough to appeal to a more hardcore player. Very quickly the lack of spread becomes apparent even to the bedroom enthusiast but it has it's uses. This bar is a great addition to just about any toy box even with it's limitations.

Sports Sheets brings you this affordable line of light BDSM gear. Sex and Mischief spread the love bar is a spreader bar that is beginner friendly. Sadly, this spreader bar is poorly constructed especially for those who are into rough play. The cuffs will only work up to 11.5" in circumference. The bar that is used to spread only spreads 13.5" and non adjustable. Some might find this not enough or too much. This spreader bar is best as an introductory to see if you're interested.