At one point or another, all of us go through a period when desire drops off and sex becomes less stimulating. It's at times like those that you need to try something new and different. This set of sex toys stimulates the mind as well as the body.

Cuff your partner to the bed or just standing, once the blindfold is placed on him/her another world emerges for them. The world where imagination is set free and feelings have greater passion. The eyes now effectively closed to the world, all other senses become heightened.

Slide a finger down their back or a slow sensual kiss on the neck, then follow it with a slap on the ass. Watch carefully which seems to trigger their passion and explore it in depth. New feelings rush into the mind. Texture becomes far more noticable, as does scent. A perfume or cologne is magnified. Subtlety slips away. The whip's caress across a bare chest or bottom tickles at first. A steady rhythm and pace against the skin creates a sensual tease, again bringing the mind into play. It can be playful, or they may find themselves begging for more. Some feel more heady when the whip is teasing them. Make sure to explore every nuance of their body softly at first-a mere trace against the skin. Slide it sensually up one side of the body then down the other. Be prepared for both eventualities when you are exploring the fantasies they have in mind. Teasing and caressing the skin creates a different mindset that allows them to explore their feelings best at the onset.

Change up again to an ice cube slipping across an exposed nipple. The skin tightens immediately and they become tense. The body cannot differentiate between hot and cold as easily when the eyes are not in play. As you can see, the only limitations on this set are those in your mind. Keep trying new things with this kit and you will find out more about your lover in one session than you know currently. Listen to the breaths for the sharp intake of oh wow that was stimulating. Just remember this is to be gentle and erotic at first, then let them tell you what feels best. Use it to tease them more the next time.

I have used these items many times with different people. No two react the same to their senses being overwhelmed. Once you have played with the items above several times, you will find your sex life becoming stimualting again because you are sharing new adventures together. Share the fantasies and play each out one by one. Keep an open line of communication and listen to what turns them on.