Aquiring the Rachel's Bed Spread|Suspention kits: Rachel's bed spread was entirely my husband's idea--of course based on his need to tie me up! A need which he expressed while we were playing the Tantric Lover's Game|Adult Board Game: Tantric lovers game, making this the next obvious choice for reviewing.  I opened up to the idea and we dove in head first as always.

At first setting up, the Bed Spread was a lot of trouble.  It took my husband over an hour to figure it out.  His confusion turned out to be because of the lack of hand cuffs.  This set does not come with them.  I was aware of this, but did not think it would be a problem.  It ended up being very hard to attach the cuffs we already had to the straps.  It was hard and discouraging, but not impossible.  I feel, however, that it will most likely take this long to set up each time.  We have simply opted to keep it set up, but tuck it under our bed and no one can see it is there.  Once we did finally get it together we got to having fun!

The straps are strong and held me in place.  Once I was in place, my husband didn't waste any time! He incorporated a few other items we personally own, like a Cinnamon warming lube that we got from EdenFantasys. He applied it and began to ferociously lick it off, and then ended the activity with giving me amazing oral!

I was completely helpless during this, which was an entirely new experience for me. I couldn't touch or caress him like I'm used to doing when his head is between my legs. The feeling of helplessness was unusually attractive, and I couldn't get enough of it! We played around with a blindfold, which really took me to another level.

The Rachel's Bed Spread really allowed for some amazing foreplay before we had intercourse. I thought he might set me free after the foreplay and the sex would be per usual, but he insisted I remain tied down for the whole show! The sex ended up being amazing, and all around it was great for my first BDSM experience. It was a great experience to share with my man.  He LOVED the feeling of dominance it gave him!  I personally can't wait until the time those tables are turned and I am the one in charge. That will happen in the future for sure!

I feel it would have been better with the cuffs specifically made for the set.  I would love to get the cuffs that are made for the set, but I am unsure if they are sold separately which should be an obvious option.  Possibly the option of buying the straps separate should be eliminated.  We will continue to use the Rachel's Bed Spread, but we will always wish it were more convenient.