I love luxury bondage toys. I'm too impatient for pretty rope and how to create shibari masterpieces, so some nice cuffs or chain can really do it for me instead.

So Lelo's new line in soft silky bondage was like a dream come true for me, especially as I both like to introduce people to kinky sex and because I like to have the boy exquisitely turned out for kinky events. Cuffs that are practical and elegant without being leather are not easy to come by.

These have a lovely pattern, sort of abstractly floral and elegant, and the red is really rich (they also come in purple and black). The cuffs are made of silk, and the rings are nickel-free so shouldn't irritate and the ends of these cuffs are weighted with freshwater pearls, which I find both fantastic and kind of overindulgent. When I first pulled these out of the box I was really confused as to why it had this feature until I read up on why- so you can close a door on them and use them as over the door cuffs to keep your lover in place! That makes these a great travel item- not only can you use them in the traditional way of just tying wrists to the bed, but also as a subtle over the door cuff for use in hotels.

These are great for people new to kink or looking to explore D/s, as they're pretty, soft and nonthreatening. I can imagine them being a beautiful gift offered to a Domme as a thoughtful gift, or as a suggestion to a submissive. They're perfect for the kinky traveler who might not want to explain handcuffs to customs. And don't forget that the 12th wedding anniversary is silk!

Boa ties are incredibly versatile, and have a beautiful box to keep them in. Definitely consider them for a sensual suggestion for that next weekend away or late night erotic massage! Just be careful, as silk isn't machine washable, so avoid getting lube, oil, or water on them or you might have a pricey cleaning bill.

Whenever I'm going to a playdate, I will pack these, because they are just so versatile and easy. Of course, looking beautiful and non-threatening helps, along with them being a hell of a lot lighter and less bulky than leather cuffs!