The cold solid metal hook with an optional rope hoop on one end and a flattering sized nub one the other is an Amazing Anal Play starter. I've used mine by myself, fish hooking my own booty, and my husband looped the rope through the hook ring, tethered to a hoop on the ceiling for a little added excitement and pull, on more than one occasion. Honestly, I found that it helps kick things up a notch! The cold really got things wet and eager. You can clean with soap and water and dry with a towel. So fun to use it, I think because it is a kind of intimidating toy to look at, but you and your lover will fall in love. Oh, what fun!