I'm a man who just finds it thrilling to be at the mercy of my partner. I don't know why, but it has always been that way. For those of you who want to give up your control and just feel the sensations then come on in and read on. The Red Rendezvous Kit by Spartacus is a good quality toy. The kit includes one soft blackout eye mask, a pretty stiff whip, and an adjustable leather cock ring. The kit comes contained in a frilly red draw string bag, so even the most timid BDSM newbies will find it enchanting. Perfect for those just beginning with BDSM play or for those who want to add that extra sting to their love life.

The eye mask is constructed out of thick leather with a faux fur lining. Soft to wear, the mask blacks everything out to entice the user. The elastic band may prove too tight for some individuals but for those of you who like things tight, this is for you.

The cock ring is just simple thick leather with a slightly soft inside. Three metal snaps allow the user to adjust the girth. Large enough for most and very easy to use. Perfect for beginners.

The whip is simple thick leather which packs a real sting. The whips are stiff providing the receiver with quite a punch. The handle is sturdy and constructed out of spiraled leather. Finally, a metal hook at the top allows for whip display. Use it to entice your lover.

I have never had a whip that provided me with much of a sting, so when my girlfriend spanked me with this one I was in for a real surprise. The first thing she had me do was put on the blindfold. From there, I couldn't see a thing. The blindfold took my ability to see right away. Since I could no longer see, all I could really do was hear and feel. The cock ring slipped on nicely and prolonged my erection while adding a sense of tightness and control or in this case control of my girlfriend. It wasn't long until those stinging whips hit my waiting flesh. The whip is strong and should only be used lightly. I was a little disappointed that my girlfriend couldn't just let me have it without leaving a mark. Instead, she was forced to take it easy on me, which I suppose got rid of some of the fun for her. Even so, I was overtaken by nice stinging sensations. My only complaint is that even with light smacking brief red marks were left on the skin. This toy is meant for gentle hands.

There really isn't much to say here. The cock ring is not washable and should just be wiped down. The whip can either be hung on a hook or stored with the rest of the kit in its reusable sheer drawstring bag.

The sheer red drawstring bag is a romantic little add on which entices both him and her to a night of fun. Used for both decoration and storage.