This is the perfect place for beginners who are interested in exploring light bondage and sensory deprivation. It helps to establish trust between partners. My boyfriend and I celebrated an anniversary in a hotel room, and I brought this along. He even got off on me just wearing the cuffs without being tied to anything. I planned out the whole evening with different outfits and introduced the sex kit towards what would normally be the end of foreplay. He was thrilled, and he's not as into BDSM as I am. We're getting there together, and this kit isn't at all intimidating. That being said, the level of bondage can be adjusted. If you want someone tied very tight, that's definitely possible. But, the cuffs can't really be tightened to be uncomfortable. The tickler is very soft but a little small. I would recommend getting a larger one if you're into them. I can often orgasm just from the tickler, but this one wasn't quite big enough to get me there. The longer ones allow the tickler more control.

The material of everything in the sexy slave kit is soft and comfortable, and the ties are definitely durable, though they could be longer--which leads to the only drawback: if you have a king sized bed, you can't tie to the frame...unless you're pretty tall. This can create some challenges when you're trying to figure out what and where to tie. If you're planning something, you probably want to think about this ahead of time.

I haven't really had a problem with cleaning any part of the kit. You could probably machine wash on delicate, but I wouldn't put any of it in the dryer. I don't see why anyone should have any kind of allergy to it. I have pretty sensitive skin, and I didn't have any problem.

Overall, I would definitely recommend this if you're looking to start small. I could see how some couples might progress past the use of this kit pretty quickly. So, you should really talk to your partner about boundaries. If you think you might be inclined to explore more in-depth, I would suggest getting less expensive ties for now...then invest in more expensive cuffs with O-rings.