This arrived in the brown discreet box in the mail. It was in a clear plastic bag inside the box. I was extremely excited when this first arrived as I've been very curious about a collar lately. So I opened it up, and it was the silicone collar with the metal chain with a silicone handle. The metal chain is 26" long, and the collar is 2 3/4" wide. The collar is 19 inches long. There is a total of 8 notches to adjust the collar. When I was checking this out, I noticed how durable the collar seemed to be, which was great. I also didn't notice any weird smells from it at all. I thought silicone was a great material to have for the collar, due to it being hypo-allergenic. This is also Phthalates and latex-free! Silicone is a very nice and smooth material, so I absolutely loved the feel of it. I would suggest if you need to clean this after use to just take a damp cloth to it and dry it thoroughly so the metal won't rust at all.

So, my husband had no idea I had bought this, as I knew he had turned the idea down in the past. He didn't seem as thrilled when it arrived and was kind of a shock to him that I had ended up purchasing it. I had expressed my interest to him several times on getting one. I had told him if he decided he didn't want to try it out that it was fine. Me being stubborn had laid this on the dresser next to the tv in the bedroom so he would see it daily. I had mentioned using it quite a few times and kept getting turned down. By this time, I had tried it on a few times when he was gone and loved the feeling of it. It was not tight-fitting for me. On the last notch, it was a little loose, which I wouldn't want it super tight anyway. My neck measures 12 inches, and on the last notch, the collar is about 14 1/2 inches round. On the loosest notch, this is about 20 inches round. (This was measuring from the inside of the collar)

So as I had kept nagging my husband about this and leaving it to sit out, he had finally given into giving this a try with me! He was thinking it was a little weird at first but we ended up enjoying this together and have used it a couple times now. It's not something he has been comfortable using a lot, but I'm glad he's been giving it a try for me.

I love this collar still. It's still in perfect condition. My husband seems to be more okay with it than he was before. So I'm glad he's warming up to using it on me more!