My husband is slowly opening his eyes to other things to play with before and during sex. While on deployment I sent him a link to a site for sex toys. I told him to show me all the items he would be willing to try. This one was one of them. So, I bought it for us to go along with the other toys we have.

This isn't something I like. I do wear it for him since he loves it when I do. I didn't really see myself wearing it, but hey - people do change. This feels hard the first time you put it on. It has to be worn a lot to break the leather down. The smell was something awful. It does have snaps to make it more comfortable, but honestly nothing can make it really comfortable. But if you're into a little pain then this will give it to you.

I didn't enjoy it during sex, but my husband did. He loved the fact that it gave him something to hold onto. He felt like he was in control. Now the edges are a little bit rough. They cut into me when he would pull on the leash. As I said, if you're into pain then go for it.

I did enjoy it as a choker. Just take the leash part off it. The husband said it adds to the other foreplay things we have. He tells me all the time that I'm dead ass sexy when I wear it and it turns him on. I personally wouldn't recommend it to my friends. As you have read, my husband loves it more than I do. And yes, he has worn it also. He has said it needs to be worn down to be more comfortable.