I bought this kit for my husbands birthday after he expressed interested in bondage. I was unsure if I was comfortable with it and wanted a kit that was inexpensive and not intimidating. The straps were very soft and ties to the lifting handles on our mattress for near perfect positioning without leaving my arms above my head for a extended time frame.

We didn't really use the blindfold during sex but it works well for blocking out the light when you just want to sleep in because you were up all night playing with the straps. I would prefer that this item have a different way to attach it to the bed buckles or something as I was afraid to tie it to tightly and not be able to remove them and if you pulled to much it did come untied. I tried just leaving them attached to the bed long term however we have German Shepherds and their hair stuck to these and was very difficult to remove so they need to be stored away when not in use.

A plus side of this item is that its small and easy to store away. Plus its discreet if you leave it attached to the handles of the mattress as you can just tuck it between the mattress and box spring and then use the fitted sheet to hide it. However if you don't tuck it under just right they can slip out from underneath. I love that you can adjust how much room you give the person in the cuffs. Just by adjusting how long you tie the straps you can give them enough room to move their legs and hands or tie them so tightly they can't move at all. I now buy this as gifts for my friends anniversaries or bachelor parties.