I just had to have this because of the lace on it. Lace is my favorite ever. The only thing I am really able to use out of this is the blindfold. I'm afraid the cuffs and flogger will break the way they're made. The flogger doesn't hurt at all, and is not for impact. Not only will you not feel anything but you might break the "flogger".

This is nice to set on a dresser as a decoration and nothing more. It feels soft but you can tell a little rough handling (like rough sex) would tare it apart. I have never gotten it dirty because I was afraid to use it too much. And afraid to break it by cleaning it. I would imagine the lace would be difficult to clean however the other side is easy. Just get a Lysol wipe and it's clean.

If you purchase this, you should expect to only use the blindfold and mostly for display. I imagine getting one of those 3D boxes and putting this set in there if you have a designated play room like I want in the future. I'm sure there's better sets out there for play than this. I guess one plus would be that it's easy to travel with since it's cheaply made. It can fold and bend quite easily.

This set proves "you get what you pay for". Though I'm sure you can get a vendor to custom make a set for you with much much better quality. It will probably be more expensive but it's better to pay for quality that will last. Plus vendors are usually open to making deals.

If it were cheaper, I'd say it's good for beginners. But it's SO expensive for what you're getting. So not even for beginners.