My wife/mistress and I are new to both e-stim and anal play, so when we got this toy we were both excited. If you're new to anal play, it will take a little time to get this guy in. I have a small vibrating silicone plug that I try to wear before any anal to loosen me up for any back-door play, and even after that, this toy is a bit of a stretch (but in a good way) for a beginner.

It works well as a strap-on (having those spheres going in out of you, stretching your hole is like having anal beads repeatedly pulled out of you and then shoved back in) and the electrical aspect is really fun if it's sitting still inside of you.

The limitations come when you try to use both of those features at once. When it's fully inside of you, you'll most likely need to turn your controller up, as there's so much surface area inside of you that the sensations can get a little dampened, and that's just fine. However, as soon as my mistress started to pull out of me, the only contact between the positive and negative end was my asshole and because we had the power turned all the way up, it stung - a lot. We didn't push it much beyond that.

My mistress likes to use it after a hard day at work to relive stress and regain her feeling of control. If you're planning to sit on it or just bounce it inside of you, the e-stim aspect is wonderful (be sure to use e-stim specific lube for best results). If you just want to ride a metal rod, it's perfect for that too; just be sure to turn the electricity off before you do.

I bought this for my husband, and we found that he enjoys the urethral sound much more. The main problem with this product is that you can't do any thrusting. If you lose too many contact points, it can cause pain/burning feelings. I bought it for thrusting, and since I can't do that safely, I just don't use it anymore.