The entrance to the world of BDSM|A guide to the world of BDSM was a pretty easy one, some ass slapping here, a little hair pulling there. The difficult part was choosing a piece to introduce us to BDSM toys|BDSM Toys & Accessories. We are quite the novices, and I didn’t want something too painful (more of something light with a slight sting). The Fluffy Flogger looked like just the right combination of light and dark.

It wasn’t until after I received my Fluffy Flogger that I decided to do a little research. Why? Because when I got it, while I felt very sexy and powerful, I was also slightly intimidated. The first thing that I noticed was the tails, they are so long-21in. After my research I discovered that this is standard (standard is anywhere from 15-22in).

Next I thought: How do I use this? Do I just start swinging? Is there special technique? Seems pretty straight forward right? I’m a naughty girl, he spanks me for it, I have the orgasm of my life. Yeah, not so straight forward; what I found is that there are SEVERAL different techniques and there are several DON’Ts. Do you know why corsets are a big part of BDSM? I do, I found out it’s not just to look sexy, the corset is there protect some vital organs that you really don’t want to hit... go figure. It is suggested on several sites that a beginner practice on a wall or pillow focusing on the intended striking point. I definitely agree that this helps; you are able to gain confidence and know you are not going to hurt your partner in a bad way.

The ass slapping and hair pulling usually come in during sex, most often doggie style. Because the tails on the flogger are so long that is pretty much impossible, so it is stuck in foreplay. I am still trying to figure out how to get into it BEFORE I am hot and heavy. Another thing I have a slight issue with is the dirty talk; “you’ve been bad -- now you’re gonna be whipped,” but being whipped is enjoyable so…I don’t get it.

The Fluffy Flogger|Fluffy flogger - Whip by Ruff doggie styles delivered just the right amount of sting to tickle. It adds some kinkiness without too much pain.  When considering this flogger, remember it is called the FLUFFY flogger.

One thing that concerns me in cleanliness of the flogger. It has suede and faux fur tails, how do I clean it if bodily fluids get on it? Just like I clean my other toys after each use, I would like to be assured that my flogger is fluid free as well without ruining the tails.

To the novice flogging may look easy (it certainly did to me), and actually, it’s not that difficult, but it does require concentration and practice. However, knowledge of some basic guidelines can enrich the experience for both the “top” and the “bottom”. In anticipation of what’s to come after my husband and I get comfortable using it, I give the Fluffy Flogger 5 stars.