First thoughts: right off the bat this thing is HOT! The minute I opened it I felt sexy; no exaggeration!

What it looks like: the handle is black and pink checkered leather, perfect to get that stiff grip. It also has the little strap at the end of the handle for hanging up (the proper way to store your flogger) and to keep around the wrist during use to make sure you don’t lose your grip. The tails of this baby are friggin awesome! Black leather straps surround pink fluffy tails to give you that perfect soft slap (21 inches or just under 2 feet long).

I used it alone the first time which of course is not preferred (using these kinds of items with a partner is so much more fun). The length of the tails seemed great though to use in one hand and whip around you to your other side. I thought it would have delivered a harder sting but it didn’t. That soft whack is perfect for “pussy whipping,” which is easy to do on yourself with this flogger if you have a veteran hand or even after you get warmed up. When I used it with my husband, he loved it of course. He liked knowing that he wouldn’t hurt me, but that it still gave that nice added twist to a heavy night.

Final words: This flogger has just the right amount of kinkiness. It is not meant to be a hardcore deliverer of pain, but more of a fun erotic addition to a playful night in the sack. If you haven’t ventured into the world of spanking or flogging then I would suggest at least giving it a good ol’ college try. Ladies, ever wanted to feel totally powerful, yet still feminine? This will do it! Nothing says “guess what you’re going to do to me…“ like a flogger.