These cuffs are soft; there is a covering for the cuffs so that they do not dig into your hands, and it makes it comfortable for long time use. They are easy to get out of since there are little pins that you press to get out. They are adjustable so that anyone can use them.

My wife enjoys using them on her and me, and just either letting me take control or letting her take control. We enjoy sitting in a chair and flogging and tickling each other while being handcuffed. We also enjoy using the body candles while sitting in a chair and just dripping it onto whoever's body, and it really just becomes a huge turn on.