The Bend Over Bondage Bar by Eden Toys is a great introductory toy into the world of BDSM. This bar can be used by everyone and is great for light restraint. It can be used in the bedroom or playroom and is perfect for beginners due to the Velcro closures. However, it can also be used by advanced users as well. It should not be taken in the shower or around water due to the material, and it is not very travel-friendly, as it would take up a lot of space in luggage due to its bulkiness. Users will love the ease of use, and the ease of putting the toy away afterward.

The bar is meant for casual BDSM and is not to be used for suspension. It's a great item to add a bit of flair or sensuality to any bedroom scenario. Like dungeon play? This is a great bar to be used for that.

The Bend Over Bondage Bar by Eden Toys is made from nylon and neoprene. Inside of the bar, there is a metal structure of some kind that keeps the bar from bending it on itself. The cuffs have Velcro closures that help securely fasten you or your partner in and without worry of them escaping without your consent. These cuffs are comfortable and soft on the inside to prevent chafing and are plushy to keep from cutting into the wrists and ankles. The Velcro cuffs can be tightened so that the hands or ankles cannot slip from the cuffs while in use.

The bondage bar measures about 28 inches in total length (cuffs included). The measurement for the two outer cuffs are 16" in total length and are 2-1/4" wide. The two inner cuffs measure 15-1/2" total length and 2-1/4" wide. The outer cuffs were designed specifically for ankles, while the inner cuffs were made for the wrists. However, the outer cuffs can also serve as wrist restraints due to the adjustability of the Velcro straps. These cuffs can fit wrists over 8" and ankles over 11-1/2", so this is a 'one-size fits all' type bar and should fit the average user comfortably. The distance between the ankle cuffs at either end is 16".



The bar is sturdy, and the material, while soft, is well stitched and put together. This bondage bar should last for a long time with proper care and maintenance. Those looking for a vegan-friendly option will love this bondage bar for its proper construction and sturdy material, as well as the softness and comfort of the cuffs.

There are many applications for the use of this bar, and they are not limited to just being bent over. The bar can also be used while lying on the back, feet in the air and hands bound. You can place the bar behind a bedpost while your partner's hands are cuffed, or you can simply bind their ankles while you tie their wrists above their head with separate cuffs. The best use my partner and I got out of this was in the doggy-style position. She was completely accessible to me with her knees on the bed, face in the pillow and hands bound between her thighs at her ankles, ass up and completely open to me.


Great for multiple positions

It was easy to penetrate her in this position, and she said the thrill she got from being completely bound and helpless was the perfect way to start out our evening. The cuffs are completely comfortable, even when wriggling around and trying to escape from them, and there were no signs of chafing when we got finished playing with the bar. The material doesn't breathe the best, so there was sweating where the cuffs were wrapped, but there weren't any other issues that arose from extended wear/use. The bondage bar is easy to put on and holds up well to rough play.

The bar is relatively simple to care for. A simple wipe down with a damp cloth is sufficient enough in cleaning the bar. Be sure not to thoroughly soak the cuffs, as the foam could be damaged by doing so, and whatever metal is inside of the structure could possibly rust. Do not leave the bar out in direct sunlight, as this could also cause the cuffs to become damaged and possibly dry-rot. Allow the bar to air-dry after spot-cleaning it, and store the bar in a cool, dry area.

You can store the toy in a closet, toy chest, or under the bed. If you'd like, you can keep the plastic bag the bar came in for keeping dust and dirt off of the material wherever you choose to store it. Due to the dense structure of the material, you won't have to worry about dirt penetrating the material, as it will easily wash off of the surface. If you want to use lubricants around this toy, remember to use a water or silicone-based lubricant and avoid oil-based.

Shipping is always discreet, and there aren't any indicators that your package is carrying an adult toy inside of it. The package arrived in a plain, unmarked, cardboard box and it only had the shipping addresses printed on the label outside. It did not have the contents stated, and the address is discreet in that it does not read Edenfantasys when you get your package in the mail. If one were curious about the contents, they could Google the address, but would not be a dead giveaway that your package came from an adult site otherwise. The box was securely taped, and you couldn't see inside of the box.

The bondage bar was packaged inside with air pillows to keep it from moving around during transit. It held the bar down in the box nicely. On top of the bar, there was a packing slip. This slip has contact information for the company in case there are any issues with your shipment such as broken pieces, ill-fitting garments, etc.. There are a certain number of days to call the number listed on the slip.



The bondage bar was packaged inside of a clear, plastic bag without any labels or tags on the outside. The only thing on the packaging was an inventory sticker. There were not any instructions included on care or use, but none are required in this instance. All packaging is recyclable and can be tossed out accordingly.

Our experience with this bar was great. My girlfriend and I used it for multiple positions and were satisfied with how it stood up to all of them. When it first arrived on the doorstep, we tossed our clothes and got right down to testing this out. The straps adjusted easily to fit her wrists and ankles, and they were easy to take off when she got uncomfortable from being in a certain position for too long. When using this product, users should always have safe words or gestures with their partner in case of discomfort, as this safe practice can prevent injury or suffering from occurring in the bedroom.

Bent over with her hands touching the floor, the bondage bar was easy to put on her wrists and ankles, but she wasn't able to stay in this position for long, because of the amount of flexibility and endurance it calls for. We found this product worked best in the doggy-style position, although her shoulders and neck did eventually get tired of the strain. On her back with her legs up was the most comfortable for her, and she didn't tire easily in this position, but penetration, while easy, just didn't hit the right spot for her and wasn't as "thrilling."

Overall, this was a great product for us, and we will definitely be using it again in the near future.