They are cuffs: not much to say about how to use them. Men or women can use them to handcuff their partner to a bed or just handcuff their hands together. It says beginners cuffs, but I would not recommend these to any one really.

The design is just your typical, toy, metal handcuffs with fur fabric wrapped around it. I think they are very poorly made. I could have gone to the store and got some kiddy handcuffs and put fur over them. The fit is more for a kid than an adult. Again these are just your typical, toy, metal handcuffs from the store.

This product was too small/tight to fit my wrist and was very uncomfortable. We used them for about ten minutes and had to take them off because it was so painful. If you are looking for something cheap and have very small wrists this could be for you, but it was definitely not for me.