The play hearts paddle is best used for some lite BDSM, or forplay. The color is pretty gender specific, but the item is not. It is best used to punish a naughty partner, whether its is a guy or girl.

I was excited to own my very first paddle. I've always been curious with spanking. I never actually acted on any of the feeling because I always though something had to be wrong with me to enjoy being spanked. Only disobedient children are spanked. One I'm not a child, and two I'm not a bad person. At least, not out of the bedroom. It took me finding EF to realize that NOTHING is wrong with me.

Now, It was time to convince my boyfriend. I know he enjoyed slapping my ass when we fooled around. I did not think he would be up for "Beating" me as he would put it. I talked and talked him into it. He willing agreed to try it for me. So hunting, I went to find a suitable paddle. I was planning on going expensive, but talking and reading post. I decided to start of affordable not only because I'm a beginner, but also because I'm not made of money. (Although I wish I was)

I found my pretty pink new friend.

I loved the design. I thought it was going to be much larger. I do not know why? I guess because when I thought of paddles, I thought about the ones in the movies, when the nun would paddle the students. When I had it in my hand, I started laughing. No, real reason for me to start laughing, but I did. When my boyfriend asked what was so funny? All I could reply was, I thought it was going to be bigger. In his head, this was large enough. He is like, If it got any bigger you would never be able to sit down again. Ha-ha Maybe deep down I wanted that.

After using it, I realized that the size of this paddle was perfect.
The paddle is 12 1/2 in length, and 3 inches across. It is about 3 centimeters in width, and a weight of 0.4 of a pound.
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The design of the paddle is truly girly. It has an oblong shape that comes to a point. It has three raised medium sized hearts that go along the middle. The hearts are raised enough where you do feel them, and they will leave an imprint if hit hard enough.

Where the hearts end, is where a metal beading starts. It starts in the middle of the paddle and run along the lining and the handle of the paddle. These also are raised and can be extremely well felt when using it. The beading on the handle is perfect because it makes gripping the paddle easier. So, You do not easily lose it, or keeping it from flinging out of your hands in mid air. It also has a string that is attached to the bottom to allow you to drop it, and continue without having to let it go.

The paddle is made up of leather. I was surprised because I thought it was made out of fake leather. It has some detail stitching along the edges. Which I believe holds the two parts together. The paddle has no give to it. I'm genuinely curious to what is on the inside of it. If its all leather, or does it have something on the inside with leather casing. I'm not curious enough to mess up my paddle. The leather is totally smooth besides the hearts and beaded detail that is on it. The heart and beaded detail are on both sides of the paddle.
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It is a terrifically well made and designed paddle.

When it was time to get down and dirty. This paddle held true to what it was made for. I did not have any high expectations for this paddle. It was my first one. I went into it with an open mind. I decided to let the paddle speak for itself. I normally read reviews for an item, or what the video reviews posted by other users. For this, I did not because sometimes I can be easily persuaded. I'm glad I did not read anything about it, and when on and ordered it. I thought you only used a paddle on your backside. Playing around my boyfriend slapped me on the thighs and I was caught off guard because I loved it.

When we used it both for smacking my thighs and butt it felt sensational. It would give me a little sting. It was a whole new sensation for me. It literally sent shivers down my spine. It caused me pain, but the pain was pleasurable. It was this shock to my nerves. At first my boyfriend did not want to hit me too hard. I had to tell him to smack harder, and it seemed like the harder he hit the more it turned me on.
When it makes contact with your skin you hear a loud "smack" It was loud. I was worried someone else would hear it. When the paddle hits your skin, you don't distinctively notice the hearts or the metal beading. It its just a collective sting. I wish you could feel the texture when using it.

If you have a lighter complexion. It will leave marks if slapped hard enough. If you are just using it for love tapping, it will not leave any marks. If you are worried about people seeing marks and your into heavy play. I'd suggest only using it on areas that are covered with clothing.
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It is extremely easy to care for this paddle. Its made of leather. We have not used it with any other material, such as lube, oil or candle wax. It was just the paddle and my bare skin. If you do happen to use it with other materials and need to clean it. You can just use a damp cloth, or mild soap if needed. I would not recommend submerging it in any water. Running it under water would be perfectly okay.

When needing to store it the paddle you can reuse the casing it comes with. The size makes it so that you can also put it on the bedside table. You can also place it into one of your drawers. It does not take up much space. When traveling you can put it into one of your bags. It does not take much to hid this from peeping eyes.

The package it comes in is pretty straightforward. It comes inside of a plastic case. The plastic is much thicker than the plastic casing that some toys come. The casing opens up as a book with the bottom end connecting to they do not separate into two parts. It also has a paper insert a black sheet of paper that is double sided. It has some information on the back, but it is not much information. Not, particularly useful at all. The casing is competently transparent, so you can see the paddle without even opening up the package. It may not be too suitable to give in a public setting. If its in an adult setting or some bridal party. This would be perfect. The package and the information is extremely minimal.
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Okay, I had a lot of fun playing this thing. The paddle fits perfectly in both me and my boyfriends hands. The night we used it paddle it was somewhat awkward. We were all set up, and I went and got the paddle. I handed it to him. The firs thing he said was, are you sure? I kept telling him, Yes. His main concern was that we was going to hurt me. I had to reassure him over and again that he was not.

The first smack came... It was followed by an award pause... He was waiting for a response. I told him to keep going till I tell him to stop. He did. I do not know if its because my ass is on the larger side of the spectrum. I kept telling him to hit me harder, as the hitting got harder the louder the smack. It was this unbelievable stinging felling, and for a moment I almost felt just the smacking alone could bring me to an orgasm.

He kept going till I told him to stop. That was about 45-60 smacks into it. He was like your ass is red. Now, I'm as black as they come. It was still able to redden my behind. I loved every minute of it. He also found that he had a sexual awakening that night also. He now loves the spank me.

I was curious to see how much pain I could take, so that I know my own personal limitations. Once I stepped out of the shower. I was still soke and wet. I told him to use the paddle and give me one swift one. Ha-ha. He did the sting was AMAZING, but still hurt. I do not know if I'd tell him to do that again when I'm wet. I'll leave paddling to a dry behind.