My partner and I really enjoy using this whip when we are looking for some naughty fun. My first impression was that it had a sort of rubbery smell which was a little off-putting. I have come to not really notice it and I guess the odor has just sort of worn off with time. The overall appearance is pretty good but the length makes storage a little difficult in tight spots. However, you can just fold over the flexible whip end and then the whole length is about the size of an average vibe.

This was our first SM toy and we have really had a lot of fun with it. I think it's a great intro into more kinky toys for the bedroom. I've never actually used the wrist strap but just grab onto the handle itself. The handle is fairly sturdy and it is pretty easy to control but I have found that the actual "whip" end is a little long. I would prefer a paddle or crop if I am looking to spank myself and put on a little show for my partner. He, on the other hand, is totally able to direct his swats to whichever of my areas he is aiming for. When I have tried using this on myself the long ends can easily whip from your behind, in between your legs and up to your lady parts, which leaves a pretty painful sting! It can be fun to feel the ends just sort of skim over your nipples or tummy or to do the same to your partner.

My last point about this toy is that the ends get a little tangled. Let's face it - that's pretty annoying. If you don't take the time to sort of finger-comb the rubbery strings they will get a little gnarled and you lose a bit of that stinging feel when you use it and end up with more of a dull thud on your bum! Our uses have been pretty tame but if you were using lubes or oils I imagine it would be a real pain to clean the ends without them getting knotted.