When the cane arrived my partner was excited and opened it up right away.

It seemed intimidating starring at this long, bamboo cane and I still was hesitant about it, for the fear of uncontrollable pain. The length of the cane seemed longer then I had expected and seemed almost like a riding crop length.

The first time my partner used the cane, I was very tense and scared about how this was going to feel. I told him to "hit light and don't go crazy". In the past we have used crop-type adult toys and belts, both of which are not to my liking. However, after the first smack it wasn't bad at all and was quite a rush. My partner enjoyed it immediately mostly due to the effects of this cane; the nice pink marks. The most likeable feature is the amount of control the user has over the swats, my partner and I expressed this opinion to each other after our first session with it. The other nice characteristic is it doesn't take much of a hit at all to make a good mark on the flesh. Both the control and the marking qualities I can appreciate as a non-hardcore masochist. This cane has a great potential for causing major pain and damage to the flesh for those that seek it. For a sadist, it is instant gratification after the first hit; seeing a mark form without much effort.

Almost every time we play my partner pulls out the cane and I never object; a brand of foreplay I look forward to and it heightens my arousal. I love that he marks my thighs, ass, and up my back. He and I both enjoy when I turn over and he has at my breasts with a slight sting on the nipples. Another gesture I enjoy is when he trails the rubber coated tip along sensitive areas of my body such as my nipples and between my legs. He may also just drag the smooth bamboo along the curvature of my ass over the forming welts. This sex toy maybe a tool for pain but it is also a device that can be used sensually.