I'd like to think we are a fairly adventurous couple who have experimented with quite a few different toys and types of adult play. With that in mind, I thought it was time to step even further outside of our comfort zone and try something else that we'd never incorporated into our bedroom activities in the past. After all, there couldn't be really anything that my hubby or I would be intimidated by, right? A few clicks through Eden's website and I discovered the Urethral Penis Plug and realized there was a whole new way to stimulate a cock. All these years of rubbing the outside of a dick, but who knew there was a way to stimulate the inside of it too!
The plug (or it can also be called a sound) arrived in very plain packaging but with a complete absence of instructions. I instinctively understood that this wasn't a beginner toy and would require some research before use.



What I found online was that there is a whole world of information dealing with the practice of urethral sounding or the use of penis plugs and quite a few people that enjoy great pleasure from it. If you decide to purchase this product, make sure to do your research to fully understand what you're getting into beforehand. The outside of a cock can take a good pounding, but its innards are very delicate, and there is a real risk of damaging soft tissues if you don't practice some basic safety protocols.

Anything that you plan on inserting into a penis must be absolutely clean, free of germs and smooth as silk. Wash this toy up with antibacterial soap (or boil it) every time before use and inspect it to make sure there are zero rough spots or sharp edges.

Lube is essential and must be as sterile as possible. Thoroughly plaster the outside of the plug and the tip of your lover's pee hole with a water-based lubricant and when you think you have enough, apply even more. Friction is the enemy more than it's ever been.

Get your lover hard. This toy can be inserted into a flaccid penis, but an erection straightens things out and makes the process much easier. If ejaculation is close, it's recommended to remove the plug before the climax. It is a plug after all and will stop cum from finding it's way out.

Slow and steady wins the race. Never force a plug inside the penis. EVER! If properly slick with lube, the weight of the toy will allow it to go inside the urethra mostly by itself. Move it slowly and take it out to apply even more lube as it will help coat the inside of the urethra.

Relaxation is key and will come with practice. This is a toy that requires trust between partners and patience.

When you are done playing, make sure that your man goes pee. This helps to expel lube and bacteria that may have found its way inside. There may be some mild burning sensations that will go away soon after. In the unlikely event that feeling doesn't go away, or there is any bleeding, make sure to seek medical attention. Damage is a real possibility if things aren't done properly, and the inherent risks should be fully understood by the people involved.

Follow the above basic rules, and there is a very different kind of pleasure that can be achieved with urethral play. Men usually are the ones doing the stuffing, and this turns the tables somewhat by having him on the receiving end. My husband does find it enjoyable, and it's a bonding experience for both of us because of the trust that is involved. This plug may initially look intimidating, but in the world of cock sounding, it's not crazy large with a length of 6" and a small diameter of 1/8". The smooth beaded shaft is perfect for holding lube, and the stainless steel is medical grade. A ball at the end allows for good grip and control while preventing the toy from going all the way inside. If you take my advice and do some online research, you'll see that there are some much larger urethral toys out there and items that don't look nearly as safe.

I have to admit that it took quite some time to develop the courage to try this toy. Both my husband and I spent time watching videos online and reading articles on cock sounding to try to fully understand what we were getting into before we took the plunge. He did everything himself the first time just because I was too scared and fearful that I'd hurt him. I was giving him a nice slippery hand-job on the bed, and he slicked up the plug until it was dripping everywhere and just eased the first inch of the toy inside. It was hugely erotic to watch him lube up the toy and himself and see it slowly disappear inside his cock. After that, gravity basically took over, and both of us were surprised that just the weight of the steel made it slowly find its way down the urethra. More than a couple times, he pulled it all the way back out slowly to coat more water-based lubricant on it and then allow it to slowly fall back inside. The whole insertion process took almost 10 minutes that first time, but from the sounds of his breathing and firmness of his cock, he definitely found it pleasurable. He took over the hand-job duties while I watched, and within minutes he removed the plug and shot a big stream of cum over his stomach. He said he loved how it felt but couldn't accurately describe the sensations other than feeling full. He made sure to have a pee right after and did feel some slight discomfort but only when urinating.
We've played two more times now with me performing the honors of insertion, and I find the control highly arousing. This type of play is often part of BDSM activities, and I can see why because there is a great amount of power and trust that can be involved. He is a puppet in my hands, and I love watching him squirm while I edge him to the brink with a hand-job. I don't think we'd ever want to go bigger for fear of hurting him, but I must confess it turns me on seeing him so vulnerable.