We use this spreader when my wife wants to give all of her self to me and submit to my control. This, in my opinion, is not for beginners to anything bondage or BDSM. The best way I have found to use this product is to first bind my wives hands. I found it extremely fun and absolutely erotic to use cuffs with straps attached and put them over the top of the door locking her hand above her head. Then I will take the spreader and strap each side to ankles, but leave the spreader at a compact size. From there it is up to the dominant to decide how and where to utilize it. The things I liked about this spreader over ones we have used in the past is the single center metal lube which can be used if she was in a standing position the cuffs that were already on her with straps can be easily bound there putting her stand and bent at the waist. Another thing I liked was the range in which the length could be adjusted depending on the size of your wife and or to assure comfort by not extending to an uncomfortable length.

I really liked the fact that it was able to collapse down to 29" with the ability to extend to 38" long. This spreader unlike others I have used is well made. It is aluminum tube with push button releases to adjust the length. The latched are very durable and will hold and strap/robe with out a problem.
The spreader in my opinion has enough adjustment to fit any size of sub using the spreader. The only negative that may just be a pet peeve of mine is the because it is metal and the center loop and the latches are metal if your trying to be quite it does make some noise as you are setting your sceen up.

The product was delivered in great shape and had no defects due to shipping. The spreader performed exactly as described in the product description. It lived up to what I expected to get for the price and performed amazingly. The adjustment is very easy to change from the compact 29" to the fun and controlling 39". No complaints what so ever.