We have mixed feelings about the Rude Boy by Rocks Off Limited. My husband really doesn’t care about it and honestly almost never uses it, I however love this toy. Weird considering it was specifically designed for the male body right? Well the issue lies within the curved tip of the toy. My husband found that it put too much pressure on his prostate to the point that it was uncomfortable and made it difficult for him to achieve orgasm. Orgasm isn’t the most important part of sex right? Try telling that to a man that has been rubbing his cock nearly raw and is red in the face from frustration not pleasure. But enough of this for now, I’m sure you want to know the details of the toy.

The drawing points for me with this toy is that it is silicone, was designed to be a hands free prostate toy, the included bullet takes a N1 battery (think super short AAA) instead of watch batteries, and that curve looks fantastic in the pictures. From looking at the specs and reading reviews, I thought my husband would love it. A big complaint from my husband is that the toys we have tried either didn’t reach his prostate, or they didn’t apply enough pressure. Problem fixed right? Just goes to show that too much of a good thing, can indeed become a bad thing.

They toy is fairly thin coming in at just 1 inch diameter in girth, but the 6 inch insertable length was adequate. Being silicone means that of course no touching other silicone toys|What toys are not safe with silicone lubes and no silicone lube. The silicone is velvety smooth and not at all tacky (still picks up lint like a Dyson though, so watch out for that). It warms up and holds body heat nicely. As far as the bullet goes, it is moderate in strength and average in noise. The vibrations carry pretty well through the toy, and can be felt at the tip, although not as strong as near the base.

The design of the toy is such that you are to insert it into your anus, with the part that houses the bullet resting against your perineum/taint. The little nubs on this portion are supposed to massage and provide external stimulation as you sit and rock on the toy causing it to also rub against and pleasure your prostate. This sounds great in theory, but it didn’t work out so well in practice. My husband found the rounded tip took some effort to insert, but keep in mind that this would be easier for someone who has intermediate experience with anal play. He complained to me that the aggressive curve also made insertion difficult for him. Once he got it in all the way though, he found that it felt nice. Everything was fine and he was really enjoying the toy, until he sat up. Once he sat up and put his weight onto the toy, it pushed into his prostate with enough pressure that it actually became impossible for him to finish. He tried using the toy as intended until he became so frustrated and angry he swore he would throw it away.

It was about a week later that I convinced him to try it again. This time he didn’t try sitting up, and just stayed lying down. I wasn’t really able to rock it or move it around much without causing him some discomfort, so we ended up just using it like a plug. It worked best for him this way, although we both felt like it was still a waste.

The Rude Boy|Rude boy sat in our toy box for about 3 weeks until I decided to give it a try. Being silicone you can sterilize this toy, which is very important if you want to use it for vaginal penetration after you have used it anally. Just take out the bullet (water based lube in the hole helps a lot) and then either throw it in the dishwasher (top rack, no soap) boil for 3 minutes, or wipe it down with a 10% bleach solution (water rinse after). I found that when inserted into my vagina all the way it hits my G-spot perfect. The sharp angle doubled with the stiffness of the silicone, provided very good stimulation for me. The nubs were a little too firm to be comfortable on my clit so I placed a micro bullet, with a soft squishy sleeve over it, between the Rude Boys rude nubs and my sensitive clit. This also helped give me strong enough vibrations to really help me climax. It is usually very difficult for me to have two orgasms during the same session, but getting so much stimulation to my G-spot I was able to have three good orgasms. I could have went for another one, but frankly it was getting too late for me to stay up any longer.

In the end, a dildo or plug|Anal toys works better for my husband, but I have myself a nice new G-spotter! Just make sure that you either cover with a condom between partners or else sterilize. I think this would work better for a man who likes intense pressure to his prostate and mild vibrations. Definitely not a toy for every body out there, but at least my husband knows where his prostate is now!