Hate this toy. Hate, hate, hate, hate it. I truly wish I didn't need to write a bad review but I was so displeased that I can't believe it myself. The size seems as if it would stay in, but this plug just slips right out and the curve offers discomfort on its way out. I have smaller plugs that have stayed inside of me more easily. What is it about this one? No idea.

Being made of Silicone, this toy is very safe. So don't think that the material bothers me. The material is fine and wonderful. Easy to clean with soap and warm water or a silicone compatible cleanser/wipe. Also very smooth - the texture is not uncomfortable itself. Only the odd shape.

Maybe it is just me. I have always preferred more straight plugs similar to the Ryder or Bob Pleasure Object. This could be the issue. However, my husband, being a fan of prostate play has always enjoyed curves and disliked his Bootie plug before I had even put mine in. So that makes two of us.

When it is in it does not hurt or make me uncomfortable. But it does offer little stimulation. The discomfort happens as it is slipping out or being put in. If I held it in with my hand it would not hurt me. Hopefully this makes sense. I'm doing my best to explain my issues.

If I had to say one thing that I liked most (or liked at all) I would say the base. It is slim and long and sits comfortably between your cheeks. Isn't bulky like many plugs at the base yet it is long enough to be safe and won't slip inside of you. Not that it stays in at all.

My hubby thinks maybe my bum is used to larger toys which is why this plug won't stay in. However, I have small toys similar in size that stay just fine. I truly can't tell you what the exact issue is. So forgive me for that. But I have given it a try over and over with no success.

Avoid using Silicone lubricant with this. Water lubricant is your best option. There are some oil-based lubricants compatible but do not use unless it says "Silicone compatible" on the bottle/tube.

I have this toy the best of my efforts and so did my husband. Neither of us can keep this darn thing in and both of us find a lot of discomfort with it. Maybe it is because we are not beginners or maybe it is the shape. Who knows? Nonetheless, it got good reviews from others so it may depend on the person or their preferences. I will stick to my Ryder.

Like I mentioned in the review, this toy met the garbage can and won't be back in my house. I had high hopes but too much disappointment.