A good friend ordered this for me off of my wish list on a Friday, and Monday morning it showed up at my front door. My husband woke me up with a large grin and handed me the box. This plug is for me to use while I do my household chores as part of my training; I am his submissive. As other reviewers have commented, it is a bit bigger than you would expect from the picture or for a "medium" but I am not sorry.

The small looks way too small compared to this. I would prefer the base be a bit different as it "pinches" slightly along the cheeks after you start walking around but I figure over time we could always take a craft knife and trim the square edges down. I have had anal sex a few times and played with a few finger’s, but have not been stretched very much and was able to get this in on second try.

My suggestion would be to lube it, or use your own lubrication if you are a female, and ease it in. Once you get over the widest point then spread your legs (works best if you sit on a toilet with the lid down) and wiggle a bit to get it firmly in place, then go about your business. I look forward to trying sex with this in as well. I would have given it 5 stars but gave 4 instead because of the wide, square base and the fact that neither the page nor the packaging has the actual measurements for this plug and that would have been helpful.

But this is a great starter kit. This was my first one and I love it and cannot wait to use it during sex. Hopefully the guy will let me.

After using this for about a month, I enjoy it but I wish it could do other things, like vibrate. This was great to use during sex. I would put one in and my girlfriend would put one in too. We both enjoyed playing with it during sex. But again, I am starting to get over this product. Maybe next time I will get a vibrating one.