This was my first butt plug. My experience overall was really great. I was nervous about venturing into anal play. I researched for weeks before deciding on this one. The name kind of convinced me to get it. I think the name “pacifier” is totally cute and both the pink and purple were attractive colors. Also, it looked shorter than some of the other designs I considered. I figured that attribute would be a good thing for beginners. How crazy could things get with this little thing…

I was worried about the bulbous end would hurt, but the design of the insertable part made it very easy to take with no discomfort. The only problem was that the neck of the toy was not rigid enough to withstand pushing the toy in by the handle, so that was kind of awkward for solo play. Partnered play was really great because the ringed handle made it quite easy to be manipulated.

The other main worry I had as a ‘bum virgin’ was the plug coming out when I moved or used my pelvic muscles. I instantly figured out that that was not the case. This plug seats firmly when inserted. This plug could be worn for a long time; because the neck of the pacifier is ¾ of an inch, it is totally conceivable to wear under clothing, as your own naughty secret. The total size of the toy isn’t intimidating and didn’t impede my movements in the bedroom. The ring handle takes some getting used to, because it protrudes further out than a tee shape would. The handle is very sturdy and put me at ease about NOT having to go the emergency room because of a toy malfunction.

This toy is solid silicone. ONLY USE WATER BASED LUBE. I like I.D. Glide, which is what is used with this toy. Cleaning was really easy. Use anti-bacterial soap on it or toy cleaner. I prefer silicone over jelly toys overall because of the long term hygiene issue.
Looking at the toy, one can tell that it was constructed from a two part mold, because you can see a noticeable seam. This concerned me at first, but was not an issue, but it could be for somebody that is more sensitive.

I really loved the feel that this toy produced. My husband also enjoyed the enhanced experience. He said it definitely made things feel different for him and he liked it.

I always have been curious about anal play, but didn't know how to broach this with my husband, who is kind of stogie in bedroom. The 'cute' factor of this toy really helped reel him into trying something new, I think because it wasn't totally scary looking. The first time we used the plug together was a total hit on both of our parts. He commented on how cute I looked wearing it, which took me off guard! It has become a favorite item and is requested often.

I guess is should put a warning on this plug. I think it is what one would call a 'gateway' toy, which everybody knows leads to more intense toy play. lol

I still totally love this anal plug. I have been shopping for a different plug, but haven't found one that I think would compare to my pacifier. It gets used about twice a week and still looks new and smells new. I just throw it in the dishwasher every other use and that's that.
There was a question about the actual material this toy was made of, so I dd my own fire test and my toy passed. It seems that the Love Pacifer is 100% silicone at a fabulous price.