I received my Bob pleasure object as a gift to myself. I chose the dark blue. It suited me more than the wine color. It arrived in a dignified package. Lelo Bob is presented Inside a classy looking box. Reminiscent of a high end watch, jewelry or a fine pen, rather than a sex toy package. Also included is a self described “stylish satin pouch” and an instruction manual.

This product alludes towards the the gentleman of taste rather than the those of lowbrow crudity. What does that mean for something your supposed to stick up you bum? Well for starters presentation is everything. As mentioned above, it is very well packaged. Packaging alone can’t make or brake something like this and that's where design comes into play. Bob has an air of dignity, lent by it’s simple shape, velvety texture and ergonomic looks. Simply put I find it looks like fine art.

So how did I get along with bob? My confession, I was a prostrate massage virgin until I tried Bob. One of the great things for me about this toy, is that it looks so unobtrusive and non threatening. For a straight male entering the world of prostrate massage, I was more comfortable with this over something that looks like a standard dildo. This toy smells like silicone and nothing else. Didn’t taste it, not going to. It’s only sound is that of silent joy. waiting to be experienced.

My first encounter with “ The pleasure object” was in the shower. I got down on my side and pulled my knees up to my chest, Lubed up good with Maximus. Ever so slowly, with very warm water running around me to help keep everything relaxed, I inserted this simple work of silicone. At first it was a totally new and foreign experience. Not at all uncomfortable but not exactly pushing me over the edge with ecstasy either. I was searching for the P-spot, so all my efforts where concentrated on just the internal feelings. After about 20 minutes, I decided it was enough for round one.

My second encounter with bob was an improvement. I went on to lay in bed and again carefully and slowly insert. I spent more time shifting it around and creating massaging sensations. I also included masturbation into this session. My one problem was that my muscles would contract at times and cause it to rotate. I would then have to reposition things. This was somewhat distracting from stroking my cock. This has become further controllable after more sessions. At no time did it ever try to “come out:” out on it’s own. I ended this session with an explosive orgasm but did not feel I reached any P-spot magic per se.

I gave Bob another few rounds of fun time and each one was more pleasurable than the last, especially as I grew more comfortable with the Idea of having something “up there”. I have begun to hit spots that made me say “oh, yes that's my p-spot” but I have yet to experience anything that was uncontrollable intense.. I do believe their is a learning curve involved, just like women have with the g-spot. Knowing this before I began has kept from being disappointed that I have yet to have a “mind blowing P-spot orgasm”.

I used Bob in conjunction with my Fleshlight, and a Gear Essentials cock ring. It was nothing but good times with both these toys. The combo of the three was nothing less than mind-blowing in and of itself. I have also used Bob as a warm up for a Prock, Bob serves as the perfect size for pleasure, but is also great for relaxing things if you want to move up to something larger.

Since bob is pure silicone we all know the rules, No silicone lubes and No contact with other silicone toys.That being said these rules can be broken under the right circumstances. If your not sure, play it safe.

Since Bob is one piece of seamless Silicone, clean up couldn’t be easier. You can wash with a mild antibacterial soap, dishwasher, boiling or 10% bleach solution. I give it a wash with soap then bleach it. The instruction manual recommends to pat it dry with a towel and this is just what I do. The best part is it can be shared with multiple partners because it is 100% steralizable, so it’s safe for whomever wants to use it.