This being my second butt plug as I wanted something more a bit filling and overall looking for a nice stretch. The first plug I bought was on the smaller side, and I was looking forward to this one being the next step up. It looked a lot bigger in the pictures than in person (it is worth noting that I buy without reading descriptions, my bad), so that was a slight disappointment. All in all, it's a super cute accessory to any photoshoot, and I would still recommend it to others, whether that be experienced or an anal novice.