I had heard about the Aneros prostate massagers for many years was was tantalized by the reports of unrivaled orgasms; while simultaneously hearing that the Aneros didn't do much, or was uncomfortable. After seeing the new Aneros Progasm|Prostate massagers: Aneros Progasm, I decided to try one of these out and discover firsthand what reputation they deserve.

The largest of the Aneros line, Progasm is sturdily constructed and visually resembles a cross between a joystick and a pitcher plant. I was slightly disappointed that there were a couple of spots where the seam from the molding was noticeable to a fingernail, but it wasn't perceptible during use. While the bundled instructions are minimal, the Aneros website has expanded instructions and tips for use.

My first experience with the Aneros Progasm gave me insight into the conflicting opinions. The sensations can best be described as intense but subtle, and definitely different. With the Progasm in, sex was intense and seemed to last longer.

Although I wasn't able to have an orgasm using only the Progasm, it did contribute to several extremely satisfying orgasms. The Progasm works in all the sex positions I tried, but positions where I was thrusting produced the most intense stimulation.

The Progasm is not a “quickie tool.” You need to be willing to invest some time into the experience to get the best results. It's not like a butt plug|Anal Plugs: Tristan - Butt plug by Vixen Creations, where you can slide it in and go about your usual business; but you aren't completely tied down to a bed either (although that could be an option, with your partner watching you writhe...).

When I was looking at the Aneros Progasm pictures, I was concerned that using the Aneros products might be like wearing headgear on my bottom, limiting normal movement. This is definitely not the case (the Aneros protrudes only about an inch), so most activities are OK while wearing the Aneros Progasm massager (although sitting can be problematic).

Pants are best left off, as they inhibit the free movement of the Progasm and reduce the erotic effects. No matter what you're doing, you'll probably wind up in an erotic fog shortly after insertion. I'll warn people's partners upfront – when the Aneros goes in, prepare for sex to follow.

Cleanup was easy, as the Aneros Progasm is made from a nonporous plastic that cleaned up with a quick soap-and-water wash.

The main downside of the Aneros products is the uncertainty. To avoid taking a “stab in the dark” in the hope that you get the best fit, I'd recommend using some finger exploration to figure out exactly what's most comfortable for you size-wise (both width and length). This can be done either solo, in a relaxed lying-down position, or with your partner.

In short, it's a good product. The sensations might be different from what you are expecting, but as a prostate sex toy|Prostate massagers - Male prostate stimulation sex toys the Progasm is a doozie – approach it with an open mind and it will reward you (big time).

I like my Progasm as much or more than when I first tried it. I find myself reaching for it often as a convenient way to add another dimension to sex. The hands-off operation allows it to be integrated into a wide range of activities, and the base (which sticks out between the cheeks just enough to grab) allows the toy to be wiggled by hand (either yours or someone else's) for added stimulation.

The Progasm massager provides noticeably more stimulation than a butt-plug|Anal Plugs - Butt Toys of the same size, and it doesn't require the attention that a dildo does, allowing you to concentrate on other activities, whether solo or involving others.

Another plus is that the Progasm massager can be used with very little preparation. While the Aneros website recommends an enema and internal squirt of lube before use, I have been using it without either most of the time, just a squirt of lube on the toy and my anus (the Aneros products can be used with any lube you like).

While following Aneros' recommendations resulted in a better and more stimulating experience, it probably is only necessary if you're trying for a hands-free P-spot orgasm, which I sadly haven't had the patience for yet.

The smooth surface of the Progasm makes cleanup easy. I usually wash mine with a bit of soap and water and don't notice any odors afterwards. I wasn't able to find any definitive information on ways the Aneros Progasm can be sterilized, so you might want to be careful about sharing it; but since it's non-porous, ordinary cleaning methods should keep it in good enough shape for a single person or a committed couple.

I feel that one of the Aneros products (perhaps the smaller SGX|Prostate massagers: Aneros SGX prostate massager or MGX|Prostate massagers: Aneros MGX), or one of the similar Nexus|Prostate massagers: Nexus gyro prostate massager products would be a good second step (after fingers) for an interested but unsure man to take into the world of anal and prostate toys|Anal dildos for prostate and G-spot. They're non-threatening, require little preparation, and have a very good “return-on-investment” that might encourage further exploration.

The only downside I've noticed is that every once in a while I'll have to push it back in or straighten it out to line it up with my prostate again. These occurrences are rare, and easily rectified, and definitely not deal-breakers.

I also noticed that when I use the Progasm, the rear K-tab generally doesn't make contact with anything (unless I press the Progasm in with my hand), but this is probably a body-type issue. The stimulation provided by the internal massager and the P-tab is more than sufficient.

I find myself wishing that there was some way to add a vibrator, but I'd rather have a durable, long lasting toy without the vibrations than one that required batteries and fuss.

In short, I love my Progasm and keep it handy. It's easy to use and fun, a winning combination.