I bought this plug a while back, because I wanted a plug that had a loop at the end to attach a tail, and honestly, this plug was the best find. It's safe being 100% silicone, and it works well with a water-based lube. It's easy to clean with soap and water. It's also waterproof, so if you'd want to wear it in the shower, you certainly could. You could use this plug while having sex, but the plug would most likely fall out, due to the short neck, which is why it would make a better foreplay toy than a toy to use while having sex.

The title for the "Plug of Lust Large" makes this toy sound really intimidating, but that's not the case at all; it's great for a beginner. The plug really is not all that "large". In fact, I'd call it a medium sized plug at best. The loop at the end, although flexible, is very strong, which is very good and trust me, I've pulled on it to make sure. I was weary when I first got the plug, because the loop was so flexible, but it's been holding up well, so I have no complaints there.

The bad-- this plug does not have a long neck; it's very stocky for a plug, so it tends to fall out, which is a bit annoying. If I could change anything about this plug, the neck length would be the main thing. The next thing would be the shape of the flare; it's circular and I'd prefer it to be more oval shaped, but for the price, I'm not going to fixate on the flare shape.

Overall, it's a great product and it's an even better product when you add a tail to it. If you happen to be liking the tail plugs that are around, but refuse to use an animal's tail for your sexual desires, this plug works great.