I have quite a collection of p-spot toys, this one being mighty similar to another one - that other has the beads that operate right at the p-spot, WHICH my man LOVES... however, this toy has the taint tickler which he found additional pleasure with! The warming factor is also a very nice add-on. I warmed the puppy up before applying water-based lube - as silicone is frowned upon for such toys. At that point, the toy itself helped get the lube to a not-so-shocking cold temperature which also greatly upped the pleasure experience. The remote is FANTASTIC, as I no longer have to try to be a contortionist to change up the settings while being penetrated while this toy works its own magic up inside him. Although I’m a HUGE fan of the ‘hands-free orgasm’ via p-spot - I thoroughly enjoyed riding my man reverse cowgirl; to watch his muscles spasm over the p-spot stimulation. Also, in that position, he couldn’t see me touch the remote, and therefore I could change up the vibrations and patterns to his surprise. A huge benefit for uninterrupted (stopping to change settings) sexy time, as well as for the benefit of edging play and denial. This toy is a MUST HAVE.