I was so excited when I got my bend over boyfriend kit! It is definitely the best deal you can get for a great beginner's pegging experience! Most harnesses come with only the harness, and you have to buy the dildo, ring, etc. separately. But not only does this product come with a harness, dildo, ring, and bullet vibrator, it also comes with a second dildo and ring!

The smooth silicone makes it very safe and practical to use. This product is intended for pegging, so it comes with a very small dildo to get your partner prepared for using the larger one once they are relaxed and have warmed up to the idea and feeling. If your partner has never done anything anally (past a finger or tongue) this is a perfect fit for amateurs in the field of anal play. The harness can fit up to 50" around and is very practical for almost any body size. Although, I do find myself having to tighten it often, as it becomes loose with use. The material of the harness can tend to rub, so I would recommend perhaps wearing underwear or using some sort of protective material if you have sensitive skin.

The harness also comes with small pocket for placing the bullet vibrator in for clitoral stimulation. Unfortunately the vibrator is not very strong (especially having to go though all of that material) and its shape and texture can irritate your clitoris if you are not gentle. I would suggest using a bullet of your own that is stronger and softer, and saving the one that comes with the kit for personal massage. A little bit of lube goes a long way with the dildos. Just make sure you use water-based lube and not silicone! Since the dildos are made of silicone material, a silicone lube would wear it down and ruin it.

The cleanup is very easy; simply use some toy cleaning wipes and viola! Just make sure when you are done that you let it air-dry and wrap it in silk cloth or something of the like. Do not use cotton or let it sit out. Since it is silicone it attracts hair and dust VERY easily and could potentially harm the dildo or make it unsafe for use next time. Allin-all though, it is fantastic for beginning peggers and pegees. Very straight-forward, simple to use, and your partner will love working their way through the levels of anal play!