My husband had been wanting to try out anal play forever. I finally decided this past anniversary to give him the one present he’s always wanted – access to the back door. After doing extensive research, I discovered it’s best to work up in the size of objects used for back door play, so we decided to start off with a toy and work our way up to letting his member play.

This toy is great for someone (male or female) who has never tried anal play. The size of the toy was a little intimidating at first, but after some great foreplay to get me ready, we decided to give it a try. Anyone will tell you the best tip when starting anal is lube, lots and lots and lots of lube. Seriously, don’t skimp on the lube! I suggest System JO Personal Anal Lubricant. It is smooth and lasts through lots of play!

This toy has a suction cup feature as well to provide hands free play. I haven’t personally used this feature, but I have tested it out on a couple of different surfaces and it has a great suction. I’m sure it would stay in place if you wanted to use it hands free.

I love the purple color of this toy. It’s pretty (which makes it less intimidating) but my husband didn’t complain about it being a frilly girl toy (as he often does with some of the toys I pick out). The toy can easily be cleaned with warm water or a toy cleaner. I wouldn’t suggest sharing this toy since the material doesn’t allow for it to be fully sanitized, but at the low price, why not get one for each of you if you both want to play?