The first thing I noticed about this product was the packaging. Unlike so many other products in the sex toy industry, this didn't come in a cheap clam-shell package or one laden with explicit images. It came in a simple clear plastic box with well designed graphics, nothing off putting that had next to nothing to do with the product.

When I finally had time to try the Pleasure Wand out I found that even though I am fairly experienced with anal play|Anal sex - How-to and Techniques Forum I still needed to warm up, the XL in the name is there for a reason. Once I felt ready I lubed up and slipped it in. Wow! It feels great inside, it goes in smoothly and if you can get it positioned properly, the shorter stem adds a nice little tickle to your scrotum. In the description it says that "The shorter stem curls underneath the scrotum and perineum to deliver subtle vibrating sensations." I've already mentioned that it defiantly felt nice on my scrotum, but I never managed to get it to do the same on my perineum without pushing it into position, which dampened the vibrations substantially.

The wand feels great inside as it is, but once you turn on the vibrations this product really started to shine. It has four speeds; the lowest is just a small vibration that helps to relax and the highest is put to use to really get off with a bang. The cord that attaches the remote to the wand could be a bit longer but once you get going that won't be foremost in your mind.

I've also used the wand with my girlfriend. After it's in I give her the remote and enjoy.

The first time I used the Men's Pleasure Wand XL|Men's pleasure wand XL it took some getting used to due to the size, but now it is a staple during masturbation and foreplay with my girlfriend.