This lightweight hook is a great starter piece. Smooth and unintimidating, shiny and cool to the touch, practically begging to be used. Not too big or too small and not as heavy as some others on the market, which I was happy about. Well made high quality material and easy to use and clean. Great solo or with your partner. Also good for him or her stimulation. Easily works with other toys or during sexual activity being alone or with others. Definitely an attention-getter! Works well as a g spot finder also! Shockingly well in fact! Quickly became one of my go-to toys.