This toy is relatively simple but extremely versatile. From using it with your hand or a harness there is a way to get excited with it. The G-Spot Charm, as the name suggests, does best for vaginal sex; the ridges go in smooth but when you pull it out, it catches against you and feels amazing. The thinner size is no problem. The curve of the toy is meant to get the G-spot that a thicker toy might not be flexible enough to reach. Speaking of flexibility, this toy is amazingly bendable, perfect to get the angle you want with it. The base doesn't have a lot to grip on, though it is perfect in a harness for partner use. The Charm is a great solo or partner use toy. One way my girlfriend and I used it was without a harness and by grinding against it. But the real magic can be felt if you have a magic wand or other large powerful vibrator to hold against the base while it is inside. Silicone loves to transfer vibrations, and it takes a toy that doesn't have a vibrator attached to another level. My girlfriend literally came within seconds and kept coming over and over with the Charm pushing and pulling with the ridges.

There is nothing more amazing than the velvety smoothness of a silicone toy. I was impressed by the softness and the way the ridges were smooth yet still could be felt by just running it through my hand. I used the toy on my girlfriend, and she claimed that the material was so soft it added to the ridges riding against her. So it is soft, not too much give though, still bendable, and anyone could use it who likes g-spot stimulation. The toy seems best suited for a harness, but the end of it is smooth and soft enough that if you just wanted to grind against your partner to push the toy in, you would have no problem with that.

It's silicone, so if you get a smell that seems strong, I recommend rinsing it with hot water. This was one of the first silicone toys that I felt the need to wash because it had a slight smell. However rinsing it with hot water is a surefire way to get rid of it, as well as cleaning any factory dust just in case. Plus silicone means cleaning up is so easy.

Honestly, I can not rave enough how much my girlfriend loved this toy, and by extension how much I loved using it on her. It's simple, a nice "warm-up" size that can be easily inserted without too much work. There's a soft spot in me for thinner toys, and thinner toys are a great thing for beginners, but even your everyday users who already have a collection of massive dildos and are looking for something more precise. I wouldn't say it was realistic, it obviously does not look like a human penis, but I think that is the appeal. There is something interesting about a toy that is shaped differently, designed to rub and bump with every grind instead of a solid cylinder going in and out. It's got curves, ridges; it has the character that meant she was moaning till her voice was gone.

It's also lightweight but still has some heft towards the tip of the head, which makes pushing it against your G-spot easier, and it kept catching her G-spot easily. I really mean it when she was coming fast from it. And the perk of it being a smaller size is it is easier to travel with, from across state borders!

The perks outweigh any con of this toy. The smoothness, the fact silicone is easily the safest and fastest to clean and disinfect, the way the ridges will rub against you with every inch you push in. It is clearly designed to be best suited with a harness and does not have a suction cup, which I like personally because it means it is easier to hold in the harness without risk of it "folding" out of the harness with use. However it is usable without a harness, my girlfriend and I grinded against each other to push it in over and over, which she enjoyed thoroughly. Another perk is the fact silicone and vibrators love each other. I held a wand against the base while it stayed inside her and she loved it. The little things like that bring toys from 9 stars to 10 stars that easily.

Silicone toys are probably the easiest material to clean. At first, we use a baby wipe to catch any fluid, and then we rinse it off with hot water to get the dried parts off. Before use, if you feel it necessary, rinsing it with water helps remove any dust that it might have collected.

Storing the toy is as simple as making sure it is in its own bag without touching other silicone toys. I like to individually put my toys in little sandwich baggies, just in case of extreme weather conditions, or if it accidentally melts. You never know what can happen. But it is not porous, so the chance of germs are greatly reduced. But silicone DOES mean you CANT use silicone lube. Most people like waterbased anyway, which is easier to clean up off toys and skin.

When I first picked out the toy and showed it to my girlfriend with the "hey do you want this?" shrug off, she was instantly interested. She commented right away "I want that inside me now" and could barely wait until we had some alone time for me to use it on her. She sat back and I grinded the toy in her and she was in heaven. Her final thoughts on the toy were that she was taking it for later. We're long distance, and now the toy is in her possession for further use. It's easily replaced her glass g-spot toy as a softer, more flexible option to get off, and it didn't take her long with the G-spot Charmer to come. It IS best added with a vibrator to push on the base with.

Neither of us has literally anything bad to say about this toy. If you think it looks fun, chances are you WILL love it.