My wife and I ordered this to try a little smaller plug. She enjoys anal, but bigger isn't always better. The plug goes in and stays in well, and the rhinestone isn't so big to make the hard edge unpleasant on the cheeks. The taper on the front makes insertion easy, and the relatively small diameter makes this an easy fun toy for all levels. It is still large enough to feel. Her only complaint was the lack of taper on the back and small stem made it a little harder to pull out when we were done and things had contracted.