The Njoy Pure Wand is a modern marvel, created by a mad scientist with an knack for fine metal engineering, designed to help you find the ever elusive g spot.

A bit of anatomical propaganda is in order. Here's the truth about the g-spot, in case you've always wanted to experience a g-spot orgasm, but for whatever reason have never had one, and really don't understand what everyone else seems to be referring to. That used to be me.

All women have g-spots. It's a gland. Up until the final stage of development in the womb, humans are identical sharing identical pairs of chromosomes...until the last pair that determines your sex. So it should come as no surprise that despite their appearance, the genitalia of men and women are almost identical, at least in their function. So, if a man can produce ejaculate, then so can a woman. The female prostate does not hang, but rather perches. Generally, it nests about two finger widths above the vaginal opening and is tucked along the front of the pelvic wall. Some say it has a spongy feel, but I've never felt mine with my fingers. That's because I have a tilted pelvic floor, like many women. For us, the g-spot is harder to find, but it is there. If you haven't found it yet, I suggest you seriously consider investing in the Pure Wand.

The pure wand is simple in its design. About the size of an old telephone receiver, this heavy tool delivers maximum impact. The hook shape has small and large circular ends that look like seats on a see-saw. I like thinking of it that way, because that's primarily how it will help you reach your prostate. If you take the larger end in your fist, insert the smaller one into the vagina, and rock back and forth using the pelvic floor as a fulcrum, or pull the toy horizontally out, you'll be applying pressure to the front of the pelvic wall. If you are watching your abdomen and use the toy, you might be able to see it underneath all your skin and muscle, it delivers such an impact with a little rock of the wrist because of its unique shape and weight.

I found the heaviness of the toy incredibly human, and because it is a surgical steel toy, it will absorb your body's temperature and become warm while inside you. The smooth non-porous surface is the most hygienic you can find, and it almost feels like a liquid inside you because it has such soft round edges. Unlike plastic or silicone toys, this metal toy will not create any sort of friction with your body- it just glides across the muscles. It is safe to use with any kind of non-glycerin, non-paraben lubricant, it is waterproof and is the best buy for someone who has struggled finding her g spot before.

Thanks to the Njoy Pure Wand, I am now fluent in g-spot.