This was one of the first butt toys I experienced and like many toys made by Tantus, it did not disappoint. The silicone material is body-friendly and takes well to any non-silicone lubricant you may choose to use with it. (Note: As this is a silicone toy, DO NOT use silicone-based lubricants with this product.) Being silicone, it is a dream to clean up—just throw it in the top rack of the dishwasher, boil it, or scrub it in the sink and voila, it is clean for another use! The lack of complicated "care" for the Flirt makes it a great staple addition to my toy box, and is one of the reasons I prefer silicone to other, less easy-to-clean materials.

I found the shape to be quite user-friendly for the anal beginner, while still giving a nice feeling that there's "something there," which can be lacking in some "beginner" toys. One of the strengths of the Flirt plug is that it can be worn during intercourse if desired, since the base is "there" enough to hold it in place yet unobtrusive enough to keep from interfering. I have moved on a bit from "beginning" to "advanced" in terms of anal play, but I still enjoy this plug a great deal—and so does my partner! Another note—always, ALWAYS clean your toys before using them on someone else. Preventing the spread of bacteria can prevent some very unhappy situations. The shape of the Flirt plug does not lend itself well to being used with a condom, in my experience, so be sure it is squeaky clean—I like to sterilize my silicone toys in boiling water.

All in all, the Flirt is a fun toy for both men and women, and this is a great toy for introducing anal play to your life!