I am often reluctant to buy harnesses because as a plus size women they don't always fit well if they fit at all. So I am a size 18/20 female with large hips and a large butt. I struggled to get this harness on even after letting the straps out as far as they would go. I was able to use it, but it does not make me feel sexy at all. This harness does not come with instructions and so if someone is a beginner to harness play they might struggle with knowing what straps go where or how to use the o-rings to secure the dildo in place.

I will say that once the harness was on it did stay firmly in place with only a few adjustments needed during use. The position of the harness made pegging quite easy with my partner. The silicone dildo is curved and small enough to use for beginners. My partner used a butt plug before being pegged and that helped with the transition to the dildo. More experienced and advanced users may not need to do that. As with all anal toys you want to use lube for this one, and you want to make sure it is a water based lubricant as this dildo is silicone.

You can clean this toy with soap and water, but with anal dildos I also use a condom on it just because it makes cleanup easier and for health reasons. The harness for this one is vegan and easy to store because it folds up quite small. I enjoyed that it came with 3 different o-rings so you can use a variety of dildos with this harness. So it provides different options if you don't like the dildo that it comes with. The dildo measures 6 1/2" long and 6 1/4" is insertable. The circumference is 3 3/4" so it is slim, but has quite a bit of length to it.

I adore the dildo from this pegging set and have continued to use it in another harness. I don't enjoy how the harness fits me and don't really think I will continue to use this harness.